I am in my mid 40s, married with 2 kids, job, busy life. So I haven't exactly spent much time taking care of my skin since I had kids and so I decided to change that. I have now met with 4 dermatologists, 5-6 aestheticians and so far I have yet to find recommendations that is tailored to my skin and would be meaningful like a plan or a routine. They are either trying to sell me botox or products or treatments. For ex, one of them recommended that I try a popular prescription retinol cream to try to reduce skin pigmentation but was unable to explain why this was better than a chemical peel. Is it so hard to find a good cosmetic dermatologist who knows what they are doing ? Do you have any recommendations for a reliable cosmetic dermatologist you have used and found reliable, in Essex?