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Help ! Completely out of my comfort, skint......and I've been invited to an event at Buckingham Palace

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TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 · 22/02/2024 20:06

Did I mention I'm skint ??

Budget is as low as I can get it, I don't dress up ever.

So far I've found this https://www.fatface.com/women/clothing/dresses/farah-floral-dress/981918.html?dtm_campaign=FatFace-UK-pMax-All-Eng-All-SE-Google-Brand-XX&dtm_channel=PPC&dtm_source=GOOGLE&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA_tuuBhAUEiwAvxkgTr_gqqlZ7NJigEjz_emJHsbp_L_IWPTXSEXSI7DqnJTMRC12LjvDgxoCYgQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&glCurrency=GBP&istBid=t%3FglCountry%3DGB&istCompanyId=079d57d6-0fc5-4bbf-a486-373c307934d0&istFeedId=0f8996ab-ce76-4a91-836e-0d1ac8489401&istItemId=llwqiplxx

I was thinking of pairing it with a black, jersey / boyfriend cardie to hide my fat arms (( I'm a size 22 ish but hoping to panic diet as event is in May )) black tights and ballet pumps. Atire needs to be as practical as possible because I'm accompanying ds who is disabled. I need to be comfortable. The ballet pumps I've found are crocs !!

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MamaDollyorJesus · 23/02/2024 01:29

AtomicBlondeRose · 22/02/2024 21:45

If you’ve got £35 I’d definitely do Vinted - you can get dress, cardi and shoes for that.

I second this! I got dress, shoes & bag for an upcoming wedding for less than £30

theduchessofspork · 23/02/2024 08:19

Have a look at dress hire??

Hurr and John Lewis do plus size

I think that might be a better way to go than vinted etc, because you have to then sell on if it doesn’t work

sashh · 23/02/2024 10:19

Have a look on ebay too. Try searching for 'mother of the bride' and 'cruise'. Yes there will be a lot of totally unsuitable things but I have found bargains that way.

fruitbrewhaha · 23/02/2024 10:22

AsTheyPulledYouOutOfTheOxygenTent · 22/02/2024 21:01

There are a couple of very cheap frocks in your size in John Lewis if you sort by price.
This wouldn't be my first choice, but for 15 quid it might do the trick.
[[I found this at John Lewis & Partners. What do you think?
https://www.johnlewis.com/finery-kristen-wrap-dress-kristen-wrap-dress/p110504378?tmad=c&tmcampid=7&s_share=jlappios_Y29tLmFwcGxlLlVJS2l0LmFjdGl2aXR5LkNvcHlUb1Bhc3RlYm9hcmQ=

Not this it’s too short and potential to flap open.

fruitbrewhaha · 23/02/2024 10:23

It’s going to be a lot warmer in May, so you may need to think nearer the date. Not black Cardigan / black tights too wintery.

MamaDollyorJesus · 23/02/2024 12:03

@TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 I have this dress (ignore the crappy dressing room photo it's a lovely dress) - it's a size 20, bought for a christening but never been worn & is just sitting in my wardrobe. Happy to send on if you'd like it. Won't be remotely offended if it's not for you x

Help ! Completely out of my comfort, skint......and I've been invited to an event at Buckingham Palace
Workingmytickettoparadise · 23/02/2024 13:15

Check out the charity shops in your area or local posh area as chances are there will be outfits that have been worn once for an occasion and then donated.

DIYnovices · 23/02/2024 13:32

MamaDollyorJesus · 23/02/2024 12:03

@TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 I have this dress (ignore the crappy dressing room photo it's a lovely dress) - it's a size 20, bought for a christening but never been worn & is just sitting in my wardrobe. Happy to send on if you'd like it. Won't be remotely offended if it's not for you x

How lovely of you. Dress is beautiful and looks great on you.

Deathraystare · 23/02/2024 14:54

@TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44

Yes, but more importantly, what are the three cheeses???

BIossomtoes · 23/02/2024 15:04

MamaDollyorJesus · 23/02/2024 12:03

@TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 I have this dress (ignore the crappy dressing room photo it's a lovely dress) - it's a size 20, bought for a christening but never been worn & is just sitting in my wardrobe. Happy to send on if you'd like it. Won't be remotely offended if it's not for you x

What a lovely offer. That would be perfect. I hired a hat when I went to a palace garden party.

TigerJoy · 23/02/2024 15:44

OP, don't wear a black cardigan. It will drag down any outfit you wear.

Hopefully long sleeves will be enough, if not add a jacket or just wear a vest underneath!

Jaxhog · 23/02/2024 16:00

I'd try an upmarket charity shop e.g. in a nearby 'posh' town, or look at hiring something amazing for the day.

qualitystreetforme · 23/02/2024 17:07

Do you do a vintage look? Little Wings have got some great dresses in their sale.

Cwtshcwtsh · 23/02/2024 17:09

Definitely Vinted or EBay. You’ll get something much better than you’ll afford new. Decide what labels you like new then have a look preloved.

Cwtshcwtsh · 23/02/2024 17:13

MamaDollyorJesus · 23/02/2024 12:03

@TheThreeCheesesOfTheApocalypse44 I have this dress (ignore the crappy dressing room photo it's a lovely dress) - it's a size 20, bought for a christening but never been worn & is just sitting in my wardrobe. Happy to send on if you'd like it. Won't be remotely offended if it's not for you x

@MamaDollyorJesus that’s just lovely - the offer and the dress 🩷

thedendrochronologist · 23/02/2024 18:13

www.vinted.co.uk/items/4137948627-monsoon-floral-wrap-dress 
This is lovely from vinted £20!!!

MuggleMe · 23/02/2024 18:35

I don't know how old you are, but around here there are a lot of charity shops that sell bridal dresses and therefore also mother of the bride wedding guest type dresses. Possibly worth a look.

Helplessandheartbroke · 23/02/2024 19:38

@MamaDollyorJesus you gorgeous human! That's so nice and the dress is lovely

NewName24 · 23/02/2024 20:29

Do you have to wear a hat or anything? That would be my worst nightmare about an event like this!! Well, that and wearing heels.

No, you don't have to wear a hat and definitely don't wear heels. there is a lot of walking just to get there, and then you are on a lawn for all the time you are there.

The original dress you link to looks too short (though you might not be anywhere near as tall as the model). I think you would be far to hot in black tights and a black cardigan. There is very little shade, and, weirdly it is really unusual for them to have a wet or cold day.

The one @MamaDollyorJesus has offered you is lovely, and, if I can say so, the one @TheStirrer has offered is even better.
Both much more suitable than the one you linked to in your OP, and you wouldn't be worrying about putting your legs into Wintery black tights. Smile

It is a super day. I hope you find something and have a lovely time.

BIossomtoes · 23/02/2024 20:35

It certainly is a brilliant day. Nearly everyone was wearing a hat the day we went.

MadKittenWoman · 23/02/2024 20:35

I'm a different size to you, but just bought a Ted Baker occasion dress with a matching top and bag for £30 from eBay for a summer wedding. Look on eBay and Vinted for proper occasion wear,

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