Can I still wear this? I could wear it with my Docs along the lines of the photo .. it’s dinner but kind of a trendy, chilled place.. but any other shoe options/ ideas? What about opaque tights? I read some article about Gen-Z embracing opaques and ballet flats 😮🚫 Even of that was bang on trend I’m not sure I could go there again! For reference I’m 43, size 10.