New wardrobe

[fedupnow2]

Hi Mn, I somehow went from being very trendy and chic to just losing it all to frumpy and really not knowing how to dress anymore. Im just 41, petite size 10, 159cm but have a 'tummy' after 2 babies so trousers and jeans are my biggest problem. I realised that over the last few years my wardrobe is very dark- black, navy, dark grey and just so depressing. I realise it's a reflection of how I feel about bout my body - just want to hide away. I am intending to donate almost my entire wardrobe but I need to replace it ALL. I need to start with basics but what are the basics and what are good brands? I need almost everything so with basics I would prefer to spend less and then spend more on expensive items like coats, shoes, jackets, jumpers. I was gifted a good budget by dh for my 40th and haven't spend it a year later so would like to start now. Please help!

Nobody has a perfect body.
I would start with your wardrobe - take out everything that you still wear, fits you, is in good condition, suits you and you love. Charity shop everything else.
Look for the gaps and make a note of what you need for different occasions then go shopping with someone who is stylish and honest.
Don't expect to find everything in one go otherwise you will end up wasting your money on mistakes. When you try something on unless it's an instant yes, it's a no. Be very selective about what you buy, set high standards for what is allowed.
Good basics are everywhere if you look around- pay attention to cut, finish, hems, buttons, seams, material, weight, texture, how it feels on etc.