Very close to my mum and we go out together at least a few times a month, we have a family holiday coming up in September and we have been out shopping for holiday clothes recently.
ive noticed she seems to put me down a lot, I have put weight on but I’m not terribly
overweight & can find nice comfortable clothes I feel confident in normally but now she’s made me hate myself! Everything I step out in she says is too small, I need a better bra, my belly is showing and the one I normally get is I need a bigger size ( even when it fits me!) I really don’t get why she is being like this. I noticed yesterday when we went shopping a lovely slim woman in a shorts and crop top walked past us and my mom gave her a horrible dirty look, I’m starting to think maybe she’s just projecting her own insecurities onto me and others. Tbh I’m normally a strong person but I now feel like I look hideous in everything, even when I’m out on my own trying on clothes I feel like nothing feels right on me anymore and can hear her telling me I look ridiculous. I’m not an instagram
model by a long shot but don’t think I look too bad! I’m just wondering why she is doing it or I’m right in thinking she’s just being completely
honest & I look awful.