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HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.

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SpringOn · 07/04/2023 13:14

Hello. I need some serious help from you stylish types.

My go- to daily wear is bright leggings (some have dinosaurs on), a navy t shirt and a hoody. Which is ok at home but not for meals out with work etc.

I have been ill for a long time, now in remission and have my mojo back. I’ve just started couch to 5k, feeling much better.

Please can you help me with a smart/casual work wardrobe? I need to feel comfy, the clothes need to wash and pack well, I don’t want to feel eighty but I have no idea where to start!

I had my colours done years ago and I am a bright winter.

Any ideas very very gratefully received!

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beastlyslumber · 07/04/2023 16:58

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 16:41

@beastlyslumber it says up to 18. I’m hoping it will work for me. I have taken the plunge and ordered one. This one. And some vest tops in white, navy and dark purple.

That's beautiful! I want one!

azafata2 · 07/04/2023 17:03

Try peplum tops, slim fit jeans/trousers and boots

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:04

They have some really beautiful ones. These two are my next buys. If they suit me. 😁😉

HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.
HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.
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beastlyslumber · 07/04/2023 17:09

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:04

They have some really beautiful ones. These two are my next buys. If they suit me. 😁😉

I just ordered two... didn't see those ones (maybe I'm looking at a different site?) Hopefully they look good on!

beastlyslumber · 07/04/2023 17:11

Are they on the Escape site?

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:13

Oooh @beastlyslumber which ones did you get? We’re kimono buddies 😜😂😂

I’m imagining looking all effortlessly chic in my wide leg linen trousers, Birkenstock sandals, navy vest top and kimono.

I suspect I might look a little more like I’ve dressed in curtains, but I am hoping this might be my new look! 🤪

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SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:13

Ah, no, I went to the One Hundred Stars site. Same price though.

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xabia · 07/04/2023 17:17

I love One Hundred Stars- bought scarves and kimonos from them. Great quality.

AG247 · 07/04/2023 17:19

You have a lovely shape! I particularly like the fit of the dress on the left! I think because it shows your waist off, so for anything with waist accentuation or high waisted (jeans, trousers, floating skirts you can match with a belted or peplum blouse!)

you wouldn’t be trying too hard in either of those, they are lovely : added some links for you to look at below too:

jeans:
https://www.oasisfashion.com/plus-size-frankie-flare-jean/BAA03705.html

this would be lovely with a cropped denim jacket :

https://www.oasisfashion.com/plus-size-border-placement-printed-halter-dress/BAA03367.html

neverfullydressed also have some great printed shirts and blouses to go with jeans!

https://www.neverfullydressed.co.uk/collections/tops?in-stock-size=20&pg=2

Plus Size Frankie Flare Jean | Oasis

Style: Flared JeansFabric: Bci CottonLength: RegularThis garment is part of our Conscious Clothing rangeFind out more about our material goalsThe Boohoo Group are members of Better Cotton. By choosing our cotton products, you’re supporting Boohoo...

https://www.oasisfashion.com/plus-size-frankie-flare-jean/BAA03705.html

beastlyslumber · 07/04/2023 17:27

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:13

Oooh @beastlyslumber which ones did you get? We’re kimono buddies 😜😂😂

I’m imagining looking all effortlessly chic in my wide leg linen trousers, Birkenstock sandals, navy vest top and kimono.

I suspect I might look a little more like I’ve dressed in curtains, but I am hoping this might be my new look! 🤪

I got the blue willow throwover and a grey patterned one. Then from the 100 stars site I just ordered a green floral fern scarf!

I think you'll look amazing tbh! I'm quite short so thinking I'll style mine with plain leggings or jeans and longline, long sleeved tops. But I too may end up looking like a pair of curtains! Or a bag left behind the counter at a charity shop. We shall see!

Crikeyalmighty · 07/04/2023 17:30

I love that- !!!

I'm a size 18 and 5ft 4 and61 (but youthful looking) so that's a good look for me too

Crikeyalmighty · 07/04/2023 17:33

I look very similar body wise @SpringOn - I think leggings, flat knee length boots with a very small heel (my necker ones look great) and a wrap dress top with a deep v neckline and if colder a long cardi over the top

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:38

Oooh @Crikeyalmighty thanks, that does sound like my kind of thing too. Can you link to the boots? Or an example of the wrap top?

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SpringOn · 07/04/2023 17:43

Some lovely ideas there @AG247 , thank you. Maybe it is finally time to change up my wardrobe and stop feeling like I have nothing to wear! And also maybe to stop feeling like my figure is un-dressable (if you know what I mean!)

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Chewbecca · 07/04/2023 17:44

Have a look at Inpolife on Insta, I think you are a similar size / shape and she wears her clothes so well.

JaneFondue · 07/04/2023 17:44

I have no useful style advice but you don't look a size 20 at all.

AG247 · 07/04/2023 17:54

Absolutely ! Try styles you haven’t done before and don’t hide too much behind a kaftan as lovely as they are - you have a great shape - show it off!

JaneFondue · 07/04/2023 17:57

That's what I meant to say..I don't think you need to conceal your figure. You have a waist. I am a size 12 but don't have one.

twanmever · 07/04/2023 18:30

Thanks for linking to the kimonos @Ikeameatballs - I'm off to Whitley Bay tomorrow to see what they've got left!

SpringOn · 07/04/2023 19:24

@twanmever oooh you lucky thing, hope you find a beautiful one 🥰

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Crikeyalmighty · 07/04/2023 19:30

These are my (rather grubby ) boots

HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.
HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.
Crikeyalmighty · 07/04/2023 19:33

And this is kind of top I mean with a low neck vest top under it

HELP style me please. 47, size 20, 5ft5. Have completely lost my way.
SpringOn · 07/04/2023 19:42

@Crikeyalmighty I love that too! Where is it from?

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bairnk · 07/04/2023 19:52

Look at mollie campsie on Instagram, she is a size 16-18 and always looks really well put together with good ideas

Blueberrycreampie · 07/04/2023 20:48

I honestly think you look lovely in those dresses. The only thing I would say is that the shoes are too clumpy for your shape. I agree boots would be better or sandals in better weather, or any shoes that show more of your foot - pumps or ballet flats.