I'm presuming it's me? Since it is such a popular material at diverse price ranges..
I have never had a good experience with it. Do you have to pay a fortune to avoid that?
I buy only a few items each year, some in summer, a few in winter, so am not averse to the occasional flutter. But history proves me wring with cashmere. So far over the years I have purchased from Whistles (£170 range), M&S (£100), COS (£150 ish), White Company (£150) and Uniqlo (can't recall).
Considering many of these are still very expensive, almost all of them were problematic even though I took very good care of them. The Whistles for example became unwearable within 2 months, and I only wore soft things over it, kept it in a mothfree bag and tried to avoid it being chafed by anything. Sadly it shed and bobbled badly almost immediately, and now looks like someone indiscriminately attacked with a lady shaver.
The COS example formed two holes at the neck seam, the White Co forming a hole in the back and shedding which made me sneeze. The others just looked fed up quickly and never felt warm. I took care, as said, and very gently handwashed, lied flat, etc etc.
The only cashmere items I have ever had that kept it's beauty is a hat from Brora. This is used constantly through winter, handwashed and thrown around and STILL looks as plush, unbobbled and lovey as it did new.
Any advice? Would you avoid all high street cashmere? I would love a cardi from Poetry but am afraid of the same thing. Is there a price point where it doesn't degrade quickly?