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Funeral attire for elderly Mum

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TeaChocKitKat · 19/10/2022 09:04

My Dad recently passed away and my Mum needs something to wear to his funeral. Im fine to pick a dress for me but don't know where to start finding something suitable for an 80+ year old. She won't want to spend much as itsns not something she's likely to want to wear again. She a size 14 - she still has good legs but is a bit shapeless from the waist up. She will want to be comfortable as its going to be a hard day for her. I really appreciate any suggestions so its one less thing to worry about. Thanks x

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Tedsgone · 19/10/2022 09:07

I think whatever your mum is comfortable in will be absolutely fine. Maybe a cardigan or a top that she knows your dad liked? It's a lot at any age, nevermind at 80. People aren't at the funeral to dissect your mums choice of outfit.

Mindymomo · 19/10/2022 09:12

Mostly ladies I’ve known have worn dark trousers with dark jumper and coat. No need to wear anything special or spend unless she wants to. I have a black skirt and jacket that I’ve worn to funerals but she needs to be comfortable.

AuntieStella · 19/10/2022 09:30

Don't waste your time trying to find something "age specific" - it's a nonsense term anyhow, but also an unhelpful one.

What style clothes does she usually like? Would I be right in assuming she is not mobility impaired? Does she want to wear black? What is your budget?

Best solution can be to get a good black coat. Unfortunately, they sometimes do end up getting a fair amount of wear, or if you're similarly sized/shaped it can be passed on.

Then underneath either an existing favourite dress (something your DDad particularly liked, or anything in a reasonably subdued hue)

MrsClatterbuck · 19/10/2022 09:37

When my dad died mum was 83 and just wore something she already had in her wardrobe. Would she be able to do that or maybe borrow something from a sister or relative. I wore clothes I had for both my parents funerals. Tbh I wouldn't have time to get anything for dads as he died on a Thursday and was buried on a Saturday
and I needed to be at the house for people coming for the wake.
The last few years I have clothes now that are suitable for a funeral

ApolloandDaphne · 19/10/2022 09:38

My DM wore a floral dress that reminded her of good times with my DF. Has she got something like that in her wardrobe that she could wear with a dark coloured coat she would get more wear out of?

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