Feeling ugly, no self esteem - beauty tips?

[zara5897]

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Very tall, saggy boobed first time mum who needs beauty tips because I'm in tears with how I look. It's starting to affect my marriage now as my self esteem is at rock bottom. Had my hair done this week and she did it so dark I now look sick with my pale skin. It's all a bit shit. So I'm after help. Here goes;

Tips on washing out the colour or lightening hair quicker after it's been dyed too dark?

Boobs now sag following months of breastfeeding - they fall out my bra when I lie on my side. I'm not big so I appreciate padded cups. Tips and is this normal?

Revitalash. Can't afford extensions anymore. Is the one on Amazon legit? So much cheaper than elsewhere - Does it work? I remember extensions made me feel prettier.

What shoes that aren't heels will make my giant self look attractive in tights/autumn dresses? I own long boots but I don't feel they do me any favours.

Clothes for tall women to make us look shorter? Styles?

Embarrassing one..... butt acne? Nothing I do makes it go away and we've just started having sex again and I'm hiding it! I shower daily and wear loose cotton pants :(

Any other beauty tips, ANYTHING to help, i'd appreciate.

Thanks @GameOfLifer x
What tanning drops do you recommend? Anyone?
I don't know where to start with that. When I was in my early twenties I remember trying out loads of tanning creams and lotions but the smell was so strong I had to stop. I work in a clinic and closely with patients, so any smell is noticed and can be overwhelming. But I agree with you all, I think a bit of colour will help a lot x
You're all so kind and helpful. I hope you know how grateful I am for tips/advice.

@Workinghardeveryday thank you. So many of your tips I'm going with x

Don’t rush to strip your hair colour. I find that mine ‘calms down’ after a few washes.

Bronzer and blush do wonders for a pale face. Just be very careful with your blending.

Tan luxe face in light to medium

This article was in women's health a couple of months ago for bum spots! Hope this helps and good luck!
Plus say positive things to yourself in the mirror each morning, you wouldn't be so critical of someone else to their face so why are we such shits to ourselves?? Baffling!! Positivity and all that jazz!! 🤗