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Just... WTF do I do with my hair?! 😫

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BarnetTroubles · 22/09/2022 11:16

Hi,

So my hair, thanks to iron deficiency, has been thinning over the years, plus takes forever to grow! Still reasonably thick though. I have a 3 year old balayage, which I occasionally get toned, but it's far too dry to get refreshed, I think 🤔 My natural hair is dark/very dark brown with increasing grey. Length wise, is about bra length. Reluctant to get more than a trim, as shorter hair just doesn't suit me. Can only really have it in a centre parting - side looks hideous on me! Saying that, I'm always moving it off my face...sort of to the side 🤔 but not an actual parting iyswim. Also, my hair is quite flat at the roots and hair line is slightly receding 😔 I don't have a huge forehead, but it's certainly looking larger now, so have considered curtain bangs to hide that a bit, but my last hairdresser said fringes are a no no if you're thinner on top, which I am, as it just wouldn't sit right.

Anyway, evidently I'm stuck in a hair rut and could really do with some advice. Shall I get rid of my balayage and just go back to my original hair colour? I tend to have my roots coloured with a gloss, rather than a full on permanent, as it's a bit more gentle and more natural looking. Definitely not ready to embrace the grey! Or shall I risk going lighter with various treatments etc to limit the damage?

I desperately need a new hairdresser! One who really gets colour. Any hairdresser recommendations would really be appreciated!

To add, I'm late 30's, with pale (ish) skin, so a bit concerned about going all over dark again. I do kind of miss it though.

Any advice?

ManyTIA

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BarnetTroubles · 27/09/2022 09:44

@OhMerde I'm almost 3 hours away 🙁

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BarnetTroubles · 27/09/2022 09:44

.....so they'd really have to be amazing!! 😂

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Milesty1 · 27/09/2022 09:51

Not another salon is great for colour! Check out their Instagram - this is the lead stylist

Just... WTF do I do with my hair?! 😫
Girlintheframe · 27/09/2022 09:55

BarnetTroubles · 27/09/2022 09:43

@Girlintheframe ah, yes - got it! It's really nice, but I don't think choppy hairstyles work with my hair texture, which is wavy/curly/frizzy. I think lots of layers like that would just release more curls and bounce up.

Yer I have the same hair type so got a Kerasilk treatment at the same time. It's been a game changer for me.

DoingJustFine · 27/09/2022 10:16

Are you treating your iron deficiency? I read about Florisene tablets here on MN and they helped my hair grow back after my anaemia. They're not expensive, and are really fast-absorbing iron pills with added lysine and vitamin C. I really, really rate them.

https://www.healthypeach.com/lamberts-florisene.html?gclid=CjwKCAjwvsqZBhAlEiwAqAHElWZ4FDnUXmzcP3sQiJisip3J9IIAzxbWJe251ObYcw5q6bysPMRBhoC7EwQAvDBwE

BarnetTroubles · 27/09/2022 10:30

@Milesty1 that's beautiful, but that amount of bleach would DESTROY my hair! Are they based in London?

@Girlintheframe Ah, is thar like a Brazilian blow dry? I did some at home treatments and it definitely helped with frizz, but it made my hair too flat and that was when I had a lot more hair!

@DoingJustFine I take them and have done for years, but my iron stores still don't go above 30. Very frustrating.

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OhMerde · 27/09/2022 10:45

BarnetTroubles · 27/09/2022 09:44

.....so they'd really have to be amazing!! 😂

I've not had or seen anyone better, including al the celeb London hairdressers. His Instagram page is very fancy and a bit ott but it actually isn't representative of how he is irl. He's lovely, funny, kind and absolutely will not compromise the condition of your hair.

OhMerde · 27/09/2022 10:48

This is one of my before n afters with him.

Just... WTF do I do with my hair?! 😫
BarnetTroubles · 28/09/2022 09:49

@OhMerde well I wish he lived closer 😢

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