Please help.
I have the most sensitive eye lids. If I wear mascara, which I should as my eyelashes are so fair, on removal my eyelids swell and dry out. It's really uncomfortable
And can last for days and days.
It's not the mascara, it's the remover.
I've tried
Blephasol
The Body Shop camomile
Avene ( the best so far but still swells )
Clinique extra gentle
La Roche Posay.
Simple
Lots of different Micellar products - awful reactions 
I have tried tubing mascara and just remove with water - even that makes my eye lids red and swollen.
I can't get my eye lashes dyed as my ryes react badly.
First world problem I know but so annoying.