My hair is pissing me off these days - it used to be one of my best features I’d say, but now it’s just annoying me.
It’s longish (thanks lockdowns!), dark brown and wavy/ frizzy, but was always in great condition and looked lovely when I’d straightened it- would stay looking nice for a good few days; wouldn’t stay super straight for long but would remain smooth with a bit of movement.
I got in a bit of a rut when I had DD (2) - the grey seemed to suddenly appear, and I didn’t have time to wash, dry and straighten it so ended up cutting it a lot shorter and trying to do Curly Girl. I suppose it kind of looked ok but I just don’t feel like myself with waves/ curls, I hate not being able to run my hand through it, it gets tangled when DD plays with it (like all the time 🤬) and has to be faffed with a lot to get it to look ok.
I also had it dyed when I went back to work, but I hate the roots appearing so quickly, so am letting it grow out again with a temporary home dye (castings) to blend in a bit in the meantime- although now I’m worried that is lasting longer than I thought so will end up with roots again before it fades!
I started straightening again recently but it to be honest I don’t really want a flat ironed look, just to make it stay smooth- so was wondering if something like the big hair would be good instead? It seemed really popular on here a few years ago but I’ve not heard much about it since.
I also need to find a good hairdresser as my last 3 ended up having babies then quitting work, and not found anyone good since- I think my rubbish layers are not helping my hair to sit nicely. Anyway that’s another issue...
So, is the big hair worth a try, or does anyone have any other tips to help get my hair mojo back? Maybe now in my late 30s I’m just too old for long dark hair 🙁