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I don't get the shapeless dress look

51 replies

Houseplantmad · 12/10/2020 10:30

I follow a few "style" people on Instagram and it's full of these shapeless dresses that are in lovely prints but look like grannie's nightie! They don't do anything for those wearing them - in fact, they make them look dumpy and frumpy - and I just don't get why they're so popular. Can anyone explain please?

OP posts:
Elllllle · 12/10/2020 10:35

It's a fashion thing. Not everything fashionable is slimming.

MoltonSilver · 12/10/2020 10:36

Everyone's figure looks the same in them. There could be anything going on underneath. It's actually quite freeing . There's never a question of is this too tight, is my tummy too big. You can forget all of that. Just pick a pattern/colour you like and off you go. I'm all for it.

PartoftheProbl3m · 12/10/2020 10:37

I don’t like. Makes me look bigger than I am. But there’s other styles you can wear

ZaraW · 12/10/2020 10:45

You don't have to "get" it. I dislike leggings and dresses but plenty of people love them.

Ellapaella · 12/10/2020 10:54

As pp said it's just a fashion thing, fashion shifts and changes. Not everything we wear has to look slimming. I quite like the look.

MotheringShites · 12/10/2020 10:56

I really like the look! Can I be cheeky on your thread, OP and ask anyone for a link to their favourite styles?

TableNiner · 12/10/2020 11:01

I don’t like the look much myself but I think that’s partly because we are conditioned, as women, to always seek to look as desirable as possible in a very narrow sense. Those dresses say ‘I’m dressing for my own comfort and not for the benefit of anyone else’. The way heels are losing popularity is along similar lines. It’s pretty feminist I think.

I have a really small frame so can get easily swamped in clothes and don’t like the feeling of loads of excess fabric or wearing dresses in the first place so for me that wouldn’t be dressing for comfort.

Elllllle · 12/10/2020 12:13

It's a fashion silhouette and nothing to do with comfort.

GunsAndShips · 12/10/2020 12:21

I have been wearing shapeless stuff for years. It's what I like. Other women are always saying but oh you have a lovely figure, why not show it off. Like as women we should always be revealing our silhouettes. Or believing that slim deserves recognition in some way.

I wouldn't wear skinny jeans if you paid me. I don't like them. Or leggings (unless running) but don't claim not to "get" other people's choices.

SnuggyBuggy · 12/10/2020 12:25

Some of them remind me of my old dressing up box

GlassOfPimms · 12/10/2020 12:32

I'm petite and wouldn't wear a dress that wasn't fitted for that reason but it is frustrating as I keep seeing them in beautiful prints! I don't think they'd look look right with a belt.

StarlightLady · 12/10/2020 12:36

OP - I could have written your post myself. I more or less live in dresses, particularly during the summer, but not these.

minipie · 12/10/2020 12:38

I think they only look good if you have decent shoulders for them to hang off and fabulous legs sticking out of the bottom. Sadly I have neither!

goldrabbit22 · 12/10/2020 12:46

I used to think that but I've come to the realisations mentioned by others that clothing for women has always been about showing your body, emphasising your best bits, being sexy, looking slimmer etc. It was so pervasive you didn't really question it at the time - well, I didn't.

Now I'm thinking I don't have to aim for any of the above. It's very freeing actually.

PrimeraVez · 12/10/2020 13:02

I love them. I live in a hot country and they are cool and comfortable. And I'm tall and thin and they look great on me.

MythicalBiologicalFennel · 12/10/2020 13:04

I'm a bit ambivalent. Yes they are more comfy than other fashions but they are a fashion after all. Also badly fitted clothes get in the way and are impractical.

NotMeNoNo · 12/10/2020 13:11

It's fashion having a swing to a times of longer hemlines/worse economy, the 70's/80's look coming round again, and a continued tendency to clothes that don't rely on a toned figure as so few of us have one any more. Fashion has to keep reinventing itself and making last year's style look a bit rubbish.

"Attractive" or "frumpy" is what you are conditioned to see as current style. 10-15 years ago everyone was gasping about the idea of skinny jeans and going on about "parsnip legs".

Hold onto your shift dresses and see you in 10 years.

goldrabbit22 · 12/10/2020 15:03

parsnip legs

lol!

goldrabbit22 · 12/10/2020 15:05

I seem to live in leggings these days. I used to wear jeans but they feel so uncomfortable and restricting, I can't bear them. I like my clothes to feel that comfortable I hardly feel I'm wearing any! I do think this is partly due to lockdown etc. though.

MustWe · 12/10/2020 15:07

Apparently this style is very popular with retailers due to the move to online shopping. Dresses look striking in photos and the loose fit means it suits most women so fewer returns.

PartoftheProbl3m · 12/10/2020 16:10

Plus they are really really cheap to make.

LittleMissEngineer · 12/10/2020 21:55

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MrsHuntGeneNotJeremyObviously · 12/10/2020 22:15

I don't get it either. I know women don't have to look attractive all the time but why spend money on something that makes everyone look ugly?
It is possible to make dresses which are both comfy and nice.

TheMarzipanDildo · 12/10/2020 22:17

I love it but am v short and large of breast so it’s not the best look on me Sad I’m really attracted to boxy clothes in general, unfortunately (and I never learn)

TheMarzipanDildo · 12/10/2020 22:18

The other thing I don’t get is those teeny tiny absolutely string like bikinis where pretty much even the tiniest of women look like they have a huge bottom...

Large bottoms are in tbf

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