Plus size & ladies with tummies - help?!

[Porcupette]

Hi guys, I hope you don’t mind me posting here, I’ve posted in pregnancy too as I wasn’t sure where was best!

In short, I’m a plus size woman who has never figured out how to dress for her shape, particularly at work (I’m a teacher in a very formal school, men wear suits) and now that I’m 6 weeks pregnant I’m so bloated nothing fits. I want to treat myself to some clothes but I don’t know where to start! I’m about a 14 on top but my hips and tummy are much bigger so I usually end up buying an 18/20 jeans. Tops are often depressingly large across the shoulders/bust or too tight across the hips, there never seems to be a middle ground! Where do you shop for clothes that make you feel good? What shapes and styles make you feel gorgeous? Any advice appreciated!

This is where maternity clothes come into their own, you can get a neat fit across the top ( although your boobs will get bigger ) and then there's swathes of material around the tummy area!

I really like tapered trousers, or slim fitting jersey harems. They are comfortable and cam be styled numerous ways. I'm a very casual dresser though! So would wear them with a slightly snug fitting top or a baggy t shirt knotted at the side. Or a vest top and denim shirt.

Have a look at ASOS curve for tops and Simpy Be for trousers.

Empire line jersey maternity dresses. I got a few from Next (via eBay) and I still wear them now!

Like this...

At least you have an excuse! When I was pregnant i liked those bands that go round over top of jeans/skirts so you can leave them undone. Don’t know if you still get them. Or wrap dresses

Thanks everyone, this is great! @WouldBeGood it’s true I have an excuse but as it’s so early I haven’t told many people yet, just my parents, and as I was bigger anyway, I definitely feel a little self conscious!

I think tunic and blouses are the way to go, along with dresses. Have a look at joules, mantaray. Fat face, weird fish. Some maybe a bit casual for work. Also Wallis do some nice tops.

www.wallis.co.uk/en/wluk/product/sale-3871683/cream-abstract-polka-dot-shift-dress-9612190

If fact Wallis have got some lovely dresses in the sale which might be nice for work

Also for post pregnancy check out styled by Susie

I'm between a 14 - 18 depending on shop/style etc and they were able to recommend great shops for me and shapes. The colour part wasn't as useful for me but changing the shape of clothes I wear has made a big difference to my confidence

Congratulations on your pregnancy too

JojoMamanBebe have some nice quite formal maternity dresses - this one for example

If you plan on breastfeeding, you can buy a nursing dress which will do both pre- and post-natal. (I had a nursing dress from them which I wore well past the nursing stage and still miss...)