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New wardrobe post pregnancy

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jjejed · 11/04/2020 20:01

I'm in desperate need of some help. I've recently had my second baby and I feel utterly crap about my body now. I bounced back pretty quickly after my first pregnancy (which was only just over a year ago!) but I think two consecutive pregnancies has taken its toll.

Anyway, nothing pre-pregnancy fits anymore. I can squeeze into most of it but it just doesn't flatter my new shape. I haven't really gained a huge amount (except for on my belly but that's sort of to be expected!) but my shape has changed so it's almost like I need a whole new style. I don't hate my new shape, I just feel crap as soon as I try and dress myself.

I have bigger hips now which I kind of like, but as I'm small busted, I don't think the high waisted skinny jeans that I've always worn really work anymore.

Do I just get rid of all my pre pregnancy clothes and start fresh? It's making me miserable looking at all the things that don't fit anymore. I just don't really know where to begin on how to style myself now, any tips? I know I should just embrace my new body and it's early days, but I'm hating seeing myself more and more every day and I can see it spiralling if I don't take some positive steps.

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Namelessinseattle · 11/04/2020 20:06

My mom insisted I go shopping after I was moaning about my post baby state, I'd say I spent about €150 but only in penny's and H&M and was strict on buying outfits. The difference it made was unreal. I enjoyed getting dressed and felt much better. I eventually lost the weight but I didn't have the same level of despair standing in front of the wardrobe deciding what to wear.

jjejed · 11/04/2020 23:24

Thanks nameless, did you keep all your old clothes or get rid and start afresh?

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chardonm · 12/04/2020 00:49

Hi @jjejed - after my first pregnancy I went through all of my clothes and realised a lot of them were old and not so fresh looking anymore. I didn't chuck everything but a fair bit and then bought things that were more flattering. It really made me feel better.

jjejed · 12/04/2020 20:53

I've had a good clear out today but now have a very bare wardrobe!

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KatyS36 · 12/04/2020 21:51

I was very hormonal post pregnancy and felt I couldn't justify anything for me. At 6 months I realised I had nothing to wear apart from a pair of jeans that were too short and a black fleece. I gave myself a £250 budget to buy 'clothes to wear now' and the difference was amazing. If you can afford to do this then consider doing so xx

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