Yes, I'm an idiot! Basically, I used to have a very quirky, distinctive style which consisted of wearing bright colours, patterns, and tactile fabrics. I liked skirts and dresses with coloured or textured tights, and didn't even own anything in black.
I decided recently that I'd outgrown my style a bit. I put on a lot of weight over the last couple of years, and one day I looked in the mirror and realised that I was an overweight, 40 year old woman who was dressed like a toddler. I have a fairly professional job and I decided I needed to look more grown up.
I gave away about 70% of my wardrobe to charity and left myself with just neutral coloured basics, like navy, grey and cream. I had an idea I was going to go for a classic, French look and avoid patterns and garish colours.
Well - I got as far as getting some black wide leg trousers and a couple of cashmere tops, but my efforts have kind of ground to a halt now. I don't think the style I wanted to go for actually suits my body shape. I have wide hips and a big bum, and they don't really work with the whole "clean and sleek lines" vibe I was looking for.
What else could I try? I don't like having any part of me on display, like my legs, arms or cleavage. I am a size 16 with a small bust and I'm only average height. I also have a pale, freckly complexion. My hair is generally light brown but I'm dyeing it auburn at the moment. Any advice welcome!