Hi all,
Thank you for the genuine, non bitter or biased replies. Yes, I am fully aware that it can’t all be positive but my wife and I certainly wouldn’t put up with anything we felt harmful, as for consent, I really can’t see the issue here but maybe that’s a self confidence or prude thing. (No offence)
Anyway, I just wanted to up date this thread for anyone in a similar position. Do it! Apply to agencies local to you, check out the reviews, call the agencies and voice your concerns, even visit them..
long story short, we went with one of the 2 options, did not have to pay any fees, had a test shoot, 2 weeks later, 2 jobs!
1 for a bbc drama and the other for a furniture brand.
My wife and I arrived on set, both very different, welcomed in, allowed to get comfortable, when action was required we were never more than 10 feet away, when action was required, we were there to get G comfortable or pass to the Actress in shot
Who was also a parent and very nice. Once done, we got to breast feed G before our journey home.
So all very nice, a close drive to set, no more than 5 hours of our time taken (ex travel), free clothing, £540 (in his bank account), excitement for all our friends and family of seeing our boy in a TV drama and brochure/advert.
The only negative, poor cup of tea on the drama set.
So to all, thank you, the experience has been good and certainly better (nicer) than my own experience as I felt excited and proud for the experience and results of getting some lovely pictures for us to frame.
Nothing indecent or negative at all.
And no, not done for the money although what we received was more than I thought and certainly £540 more than he already had which I’m sure he will be grateful of one day. It was done for the excitement, fun and professional pictures in settings we wouldn’t have the chance of getting otherwise.
We have a 3rd job lined up!