Urgent help needed

[ConfusedAndStressed95]

It's my friends birthday and he's just decided that he want's to go out clubbing in Leeds for his birthday on FRIDAY evening. I've no idea what you wear to go clubbing as I've never been. I'm also short and overweight so no idea what that means I should wear.

I usually stick to t shirt and jeans, checked shirt with a vest top and leggings, a nice dressy top with a jacket/cardi/blazer and leggings or a jumper dress with leggings.

I don't own heels, I can walk in them though so I could buy some and I'd need to buy a handbag because I don't own one. I'm not prepared to buy a load of makeup I won't use again because I don't currently own any but I could buy mascara and natural lipstick if I needed to but I don't like concealer or anything all over my face.

I'm happy to post pictures of clothes I currently have if needed I just don't want to stick out like a sore thumb amongst everyone else.

Frankly I think you'll look more out of place in clothes that make you miserable. So I'd look at what you've got and aim for black. Can you do black dressy top/blazer and leggings or trousers? Depending on the club maybe stay away from jeans. Again I'd say don't wear heels unless you want to - maybe a heeled boot, or just go flat. Handbags are a pain in a club, would you reuse a simple cross body small handbag? If so go for one of them. With that combination, will you be the most glamorous person there? Probably not - but you'll be more comfortable and enjoy the birthday more.

If you really want to glam up from what your normal look is can you get your make up done at a department store on the Friday? Tell them to go light and it will still look much more than you're use to.

But if he's your friend he's not expecting you to turn up different to who you are.

If wear your jeans, vest and the blazer. I'd wear a statement necklace and some red lipstick and mascara. Buy a cheap handbag. Job done. Don't go too far from who you are. Footwear wise I'm not sure. Ballet flats or heels?

Poundland makeup is great for the the price. Foundation, eye shadow, mascara, eyeliner, lippy....job done for a fiver. Agree with pp wear what you're comfortable in.

I agree with pps. Don't wear something that isn't really 'you'. Tshirt and jeans is usually fine clubbing, but wear something other than trainers. It doesn't have to be heels. What else have you got?

If you like jumper dresses, how about a tshirt dress?

Jeans, nice jacket (I'll second the blazer), a little cleavage?

I don't think you'd need to buy makeup tbh... I've gone clubbing without any makeup at all (when I still went clubbing) and it was perfectly fine... Or how about a bold lip and some mascara?

I think I'm going to wear this top with black leggings and either boots or heels, I've no idea which one will be best. I'll likely see if I can get a necklace and a cheap cross body handbag.
I've got nice eyes so I'm fine wearing mascara but I can't wear eyeliner, it makes my eyes sore so I'll avoid it. I've no interest in concealers or blushers or eye shadows. I like my face as it is. It's not perfect by any means but I don't feel like I need to cover it. I'll likely see if I can grab a lipstick or lip gloss or something though. I feel that I'll need it. I'll also likely take a jumper with me as I don't mind folding it over a bag but I will mind not having one when I'm getting the train home.

I'll probably see if I can find a jacket though while I'm out as I don't actually own any, if not it's a black vaguely dressy/club appropriate jumper that I already own.

I've not been clubbing in years, but I do think the key is being comfortable, but also feeling special. Could you squeeze in a hair or nail appointment or something? They always made me feel fab! Xx

I'd wear boots. Heels are such a hassle when it comes to clubbing.

The top is really pretty btw. Just wear an outdoor jacket that you take off when you're inside? I don't think you'd 'require' a blazer or pullover if you're wearing a nice top like this.

Btw, do you have any idea what 'kind' of clubbing your friend is after?

Love that top. Yeah, boots, leggings, a bit of lip gloss and maybe something on your eyes. I'd also wear a chunky necklace with that.

You have amazing skin and a lovely shape btw .

That's a gorgeous top! I'd go for flat black ankle boots, maybe some with a bit of embellishment. You'll look lovely and fit in perfectly. Have fun!

That top is perfect. If you have a blazer instead of jumper will be still smart when between pubs/clubs but warm for train home after. Have you sorted bottoms/shoes yet?
Mascara sounds perfect and maybe get hair blowdried before unless you can do it yourself?

I’ve managed to get a crossbody handbag and some boots with chunky heels. I’ve also bought mascara and lipstick for the first time and a pack of blister plasters to be safe. Couldn’t get a necklace that would work so will go without. I think I’m definitely going to take my nice black jumper though or I’ll freeze on the way there and back. I don’t like the blazer with the top. Plus the blazer doesn’t close at the front.

I think we’re just going to revs and then Viaduct.

Handbags and boots sound good! Make sure you don't wear them for the first time that evening... (ouch. But I just seem to have blister-y feet...). Lipstick and mascara is pretty much always acceptable imo.

think we’re just going to revs and then Viaduct
I'm a few countries away, that doesn't tell me anything tbh. Is it a Latin dancing club? One of those clubs that let in everyone or a bit more 'exclusive'?
is there a certain crowd that frequents them?

Anyhow. Your outfit sounds great, the top is gorgeous and looks great with your skin tone. I hope you have a nice evening.

Revs is a cocktail bar apparently smart casual, no idea what that is and Viaduct is a gay bar and I think somewhere between smart casual and dress to impress.

That top is stunning OP. Black trousers and smart shoes and you're there.

Not leggings! Have you got some black jeans?

@RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie, I don't have any black jeans at least none that would match. Tbh I'll probably try them on with the top but I'll likely end up wearing leggings as the compression is soothing. They're not the see through or exercise type.

Love the top! Where is it from?

@Frustratedandworried, I bought it at Yours Clothing. My housemate likes it as well.

did you have fun, OP?
love the outfit

I go out in Leeds in boyfriend jeans, black vest top and converse, no make up

Op don't feel.you have to go over the top, it's a massive mixof foxy folk and scruffers

@TanteRose, I did go and it was fun, I'd probably not do it again because it really isn't my thing but I made the effort and my friend was pleased that my friend and I had come as no one else from here did. It was a good thing my friend did go because I cannot walk in heels when I've had a drink and he was very nice at holding me upright. Though he will be teasing me till the end of time about it . He also picked me up in the train station because I said he wouldn't be able to and tonight when he left mine he did it again so I think that's his new amusement. He was also very amused and pleased by my drunken proclamation that he is really strong every time he managed to stop me from tripping when my feet wouldn't cooperate.

@JoyceDivision, I was glad that I did go dressier than I would normally as there was only me and another girl out with a group of guys and she was dressed similarly. So I didn't stick out as being over or under dressed though we we're both dressed up more than any of the guys but I feel that's fairly typical.

Glad you had a good time op....and we'll done for sticking it out in heels!

@JoyceDivision, had I been out with female friends I'd have taken my shoes off. He did say if we'd have been the same size he'd have swapped shoes but considering how big his feet are I'd have had the same issue. So I used him as an anchor.