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rosepoet · 26/10/2019 19:37

I am always secretly appalled by certain 'beauty practices. How can anyone do ANYTHING with those long decorated fingernails. The Chinese encouraged the growth of long fingernails to advertise status and [necessarily] idle lives. How do women with these talons cook, paint, type, attend to bodily functions, avoid ripping them off?
I also see people with those vast carpet sweeper eyelashes and feel amazement. Does looking like a giraffe make them feel attractive?
Buttock enlargement [or boob enhancement, for that matter]. WHY? And tottering around in high heels- are the wrecked feet worth it? If you ever saw a photo of Sarah Jessica Parker's poor feet, you would bin the Monolos as an act of self-harm. I fought a vigorous battle with my mother [first] and then with society, not to go to sleep in curlers, or wear a corset [and stockings] or hobble around in foot destroying shoes, or [later] to waste hours depilating pubes or attending nail bars.

Men who remove all their body hair come across as self-obsessed and slightly creepy-ditto women who care so much about something so trivialising. It's a free world, so they are welcome to their obsessions, but it's NOT for me!

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taybert · 26/10/2019 19:44

Well done.

Ohidontknow99 · 26/10/2019 19:48

You sound pretty boring and jealous

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Inthemoment38 · 26/10/2019 20:05

Overall I agree OP. Although you wouldn't approve of my pube, leg, brow and moustache waxing perchant no doubt!

I was recently told by my beautiful, intelligent, professional and funny friend that she regularly gets Botox and lip filler injections. She is 28. I felt heartbroken. How is it that whatever cultural/ social environment that we live in has made someone like her feel she has to pay someone to arguably mutilate her for her to feel good?
Partly I was gutted because she was speaking about it in front of my dd and another little girl and it breaks my heart to think those girls may one day feel they need this stuff.

troppibambini · 26/10/2019 20:38

Okaayyyyy.... and it's Manolo by the way.

rosepoet · 26/10/2019 20:41

I do depilate too- but in an ashamed way. Shame is the basis of these acts of self-harm. I am a poet, and the last line of one of my poems is 'Beauty is simply self-belief'. We have all had those days, not remotely dependent on beauty rituals, when we have felt powerful and beautifully confident. I went along to the People's Match, and put on a really beautiful dress and a pretty hat. And some guy seeing my 'people's March poster, just said, in a very friendly, non-sexist way, 'You look really beautiful!'- and I appreciated the comment, because that is how I felt!

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rosepoet · 26/10/2019 20:43

Oops, People's MARCH!

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rosepoet · 26/10/2019 20:55

OhIdon'tknow-I don't know you, you don't know me- so I don't feel the need to respond to such nastiness with anything other than a shrug. It's a personal view- that I am not into corsets or any kind of falsies! If you want those things, that's up to you. But I will fight for all the little girls in my life who worry about their weight and their appearance when they are still little girls. Women are the people who inflict FGM, women were the foot binders crippling their daughters. The freedom to choose is worth fighting for- if you think that is boring I feel sorry for you. Plus the need to try to shame other women 'frumpy old women'- is your problem, not mine!

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crosser62 · 26/10/2019 21:04

I just don’t understand the lip thing personally.
I came across a young woman at work who I sympathised with as I thought she had huge cold sores about to erupt in her lips.
They were red, inflamed and lumpy just what mine look like when cold sores are on the way. Anyway it turns out that she has purposefully had some stuff injected into her lips to make them look like that.
I have noticed lots of people with these odd shaped lumpy swollen lips. I don’t understand how this is seen to be attractive as it looks very painful actually.
It almost looks like they are stuck on, and to do this purposefully is strange.
I wonder if it is painful not just to do but after it’s done but i haven’t got the nerve to ask.

JaceLancs · 26/10/2019 21:05

I wear heels for going out or special occasions and have beautiful feet - not a bunion or hammer toe in sight
I shave armpits as makes my deodorant stick better and legs below knee because I prefer the smooth look - rest of hair stays au naturel
I don’t wear make up and have not yet considered surgery or enhancements but am only 55 so may change my mind

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