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This dress?

25 replies

peg90 · 07/10/2019 21:50

I'm wearing this dress to a wedding at the weekend but is it a bit wintery/Morticia Adams? Grin

I'll be wearing it regardless as I've nothing else to wear but what shoes and bag would look best with it?

Thanks

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greenlynx · 07/10/2019 21:54

Is it black or dark navy?

Bluntness100 · 07/10/2019 21:55

That looks black and not really appropriate for a wedding.

Swiftier · 07/10/2019 21:56

I would choose something else - it looks more like a Halloween outfit than a wedding guest outfit 😂

peg90 · 07/10/2019 21:58

It's black. That's what I was worried about Confused

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Apileofballyhoo · 07/10/2019 21:58

It looks fine OP. Just wear bright accessories.

LisaSimpsonsbff · 07/10/2019 22:02

Ah, that's a tricky one as bright coloured accessories will look a bit tacky with a black dress, but you definitely need something to lift it. How about a jewel coloured wrap, and maybe gold or silver shoes?

Morgan12 · 07/10/2019 22:05

I like it.

I would wear nude shoes and nude bag. But I hate colour with black.

What's your plans for hair? Do you have a fascinator?

Bluntness100 · 07/10/2019 22:07

Coloured accessories will be tacky, don't do that.

If you really need to wear it then I'd do maybe a silver pashmina or jacket and silver shoes.

Have you really not got anything else? A pair of tailored trousers, you can then pick up a suitable top quite cheaply on line and wear with heels.

peg90 · 07/10/2019 22:08

I'd prefer to avoid bright colours but could easily try some.
I have no idea about hair either Blush really not any good at this stuff!

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greenlynx · 07/10/2019 23:39

I wouldn’t go for gold/silver, too Christmassy imo, something bright coloured rather.

dellacucina · 07/10/2019 23:42

It might look good and appropriate with a little black bolero jacket or blazer?

Runkle · 07/10/2019 23:44

I don't like it sorry, maybe yes for a night out but not for a wedding..no matter how it's accesorised.

FloatingObject · 08/10/2019 05:56

I think if it was a December or January wedding you could just about get away with it with nude or silver accessories, but it's only October. I would get something different.

Jacksback · 08/10/2019 06:16

I went to a wedding recently and there were women in black or dark coloured dresses. In fact there was a mix of styles / colours / dresses / trousers , I don’t think this dress would be out of place .

It will be classic with , nude accessories .

FenellaMaxwell · 08/10/2019 06:17

Do you have anything else? That really does look quite funereal - it’s very Italian widow.

fantasmasgoria1 · 08/10/2019 06:23

It's a nice dress. Tbh it's not remotely morticia or goth. It's just a black lacy dress. You could wear as others have said some nude/buff heels similar bag. I don't know about its appropriateness for a wedding but it wouldn't bother me if worn to my wedding, probably because I'm a goth!

Apolloanddaphne · 08/10/2019 06:41

Nice dress. Plenty of people wear black dresses to weddings it's only on MN that it's no allowed! Do you already have any shoes and a bag you could use? I think silver or grey would look good.

81Byerley · 08/10/2019 06:55

I think it would look lovely with very bright accessories.

boredboredboredboredbored · 08/10/2019 06:58

I think it's lovely and wouldn't think twice if somebody wore that to my wedding in Feb. I'd go with either nude or silvery/glittery accessories if you have them.

whatswithtodaytoday · 08/10/2019 06:59

It's just a dress, not gothy at all. It's fine!

user1485155939 · 08/10/2019 07:04

I think it's a beautiful dress and would go with nude shoes, nude bag and very simple gold jewellery and if your hair is long enough have it up but loosely and if not have it down and curled 😊

pigglypug · 08/10/2019 07:53

I also agree that plenty of people wear black to weddings these days. I think it's quite old fashioned to say it's not allowed? I agree with nude accessories, possibly light gold jewellery. It's a nice dress!

(On a side note, I hate it when an OP clearly says they have nothing else to wear but people still ask if they really don't. It's not helpful).

Greggers2017 · 08/10/2019 08:13

I've been to a couple of weddings wearing black. Wore it once with red accessories and then a different dress with silver. It was March, didn't look Christmassy or like I was going to a funeral. I only got compliments. Go for it OP.

Happyandglorious · 08/10/2019 08:26

Pale pashmina -baby pink or anything that softens the look

peg90 · 08/10/2019 10:32

Thanks everyone, I've ordered another dress (might also be black). I don't have a problem wearing black to weddings, just thought it was a bit much.

Will see how I get on with this other one otherwise it'll be that with nude shoes.

Thanks again

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