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Please help me define my style!

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Clettercletterthatsbetter · 27/09/2019 11:56

Help me, please, wise fashionistas of Mumsnet!

The current situation: I’m 33, pregnant (not helping style situation), limited budget, two kids (soon to be 3) under school age.

My lifestyle: pre school drops offs, rushing between activities and clubs, will soon be bf a baby, playing with 2yo DS on the floor.

Body shape: 5’9”, size 10 (when not pregnant), quite big distance between crotch and hips (so can’t stand trousers that hang too low and show a builder’s bum). Average size boobs, longer than average torso so dresses with a ‘waist’ rarely work as they don’t fall on my slimmest part.

I wear: skinny jeans, slouchy jumpers, metallic Supergas, loose-fitting blouses/shirts (though can’t pull off many shirt styles as they look too boxy on my frame).

Shops I like: Hush (though I find the quality has seriously slipped recently), Cos, Toast, & Other Stories.

Can’t abide: Next, M&S - I find the cuts all wrong for my body shape, H&M (everything falls apart), anything too boho looking.

I’d quite like to be able to pull off the athleisure look for more casual days, but I’d say my natural style falls more towards the classic, clean lines, blocks of colour look. I don’t like too much pattern or bright colour but also don’t want to look a boring grey and sludgy mess! I haven’t had my colours done properly but suspect I’m a soft summer. Mousy hair that will soon be highlighted, grey eyes, pale-ish skin with a tendency to freckle.

I’m in the process of getting my hair sorted - it’s currently a frizzy mess that needs cutting and colouring. I need help with make up (I wear very little and I’m getting a bit old and tired for so little!) and clothes as I feel I’m stuck in a frumpy rut! I’d like to look a bit more ‘expensive’, more out together and generally less of a state.

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DarlingCoffee · 27/09/2019 14:08

I’ve used StitchFix in the past and have been pleased with what they found for me. You can get £15 off using this link if that helps? www.stitchfix.co.uk/invite/mkp2tvzm5f?sod=i&som=e

Clettercletterthatsbetter · 27/09/2019 14:29

Was it any good? I’ve seen good reviews of it in the states but all the reviews I’ve seen of the U.K. version say it’s mostly cheap clothing that you could pick up easily on the high street. Did they send you anything good?

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DarlingCoffee · 27/09/2019 14:31

Not the first time but the second time was very good. I had pieces from Whistles, Great Plains and vintage pieces. I just thought of it for you because if you’re anything like me you don’t have time to shop but it’s nice to get some new bits to lift your style a bit. And they actually picked out some things I probably wouldn’t have gone for so it was good for a bit of a style refresh.

PaulHollywoodsleftbollockhair · 27/09/2019 15:30

Sounds as if you know your style already but just want a more cohesive wardrobe. I would start with capsule of plain but good quality items and add accessories for interest.

Unfancy has a good (and free) template to work out what you need to pull a capsule together for the lifestyle you have rather than a fantasy one.

Identify what the gaps are and have a massive wardrobe clear out if necessary.

Make-up wise - Bobbi Brown consultation is probably a good call. They have lots of 'soft summer' toned products.

Mango has some great things in at the moment. Arket, Cos and The White Company worth a look too.

XingMing · 27/09/2019 20:29

Me&Em for your fancy stuff that will flow into your post mat leave wardrobe, but not inexpensive.

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