HELP ME BE TRENDYYYY

[Bella19961]

I feel like I'm having abit of a identity crisis.

I've recently gone through 4 pregnancy losses and my skin is so spotty and I've gained so much weight.

I just don't know who I am anymore, I don't even think before putting on a outfit where as before I used to be known to be trendy and was always being asked where I got my clothes and loved shopping.

Now I can't think of anything worse! I feel like my hair is so long and just nothing to it! I've always had long hair but I feel like I just want to look more put together again.

It probably doesn't help that nothing fits me.. I think I need to actually just get in the gym.

I'm not massive by any means.. a size 10 but very very short!

I've always been 6-8 so obviously it's bigger for me ( when I say I'm short, I'm honestly diddy) so I do look really stumpy.

I'm just trying to work out how I can get back to being " me" when I feel like I'm not the same person as before.

I find myself envying my sister in law so much as she honestly reminds me of me before I had all these misscarriage.

I honestly love how she puts her outfits together but I can't even think how to do it anymore. It was like my little hobbie😂 now I can't even be bothered to put make up on!!

Please ladies! What the hell is trendy for a young lady in her twenty's 😓

First thing would be to sort your hair, I think. Go for something different, something that has visual impact straightaway. Then, get some eyelash extensions and a manicure that will last. Invest in a few good masks for your face and get back into a simple, easy routine of facial care.

Go for a walk every day. Then start looking at what a capsule wardrobe that fits you now would look like. Just 6-8 pieces for now, that all fit nicely. DO NOT buy things to ‘slim into’! Look at other people are a similar height and size to you, try to find common denominators in those that look well put together and whose styles and looks you like. Make a note of those and relocate them.

It’s a little hard to advise on what exactly you should buy, as it really depends on you and what style you like.

for your losses, that will have really taken a toll. Look after yourself and be gentle, be kind. Try to relate to yourself the way you would to a good friend.

Sigh. This autocorrect is so irritating! *Try to replicate outfits you like.