My signature style evolved over time but is based at least in part on a happy coincidence. I grew up watching 1940s/50s films (Bette Davis, Lana Turner etc) and loved the glamour - happily, I also grew up with a (size 8) hourglass figure which looks best in 1940s/50s looks (slim-skirted, not full). Long legs, arms and neck. Nondescript ankles and wrists (with a tendency to cankles in hot weather!). Substantial thighs.
So I wear a lot of midcentury vintage: slim long pencil skirts, silk blouses, jackets with nipped in waists, draped cocktail dresses, peplums, capes, dramatically high necklines. The silhouette is usually strong shapes and angles. Very few prints. I love yellow, red, orange and teal. I temper with navy, cream, khaki, rust.
My typical outfits:
Winter: slim, ribbed wool or cashmere or silk polonecks, tucked into a midi tweed or wool pencil skirt. Worn with slim boots or brogues. High neck silk blouses underneath a 50s nipped waist jacket. Hourglass 50s eyelash wool skirt suits. Accessorised with small gold hoops or pearl drops, or else I a big statement brass or gold necklace. Casual wear not that dissimilar to work wear, only the pencil skirt will be denim and the boots will be flat. Belted tweed cape or 50s princess coat, also nipped in at the waist with a belt.
Summer: short sleeved silk blouses, cotton or linen midi pencil skirts. Slightly oversized single breasted navy lightweight wool blazer. Pale blue pencil skirt with linen shirt tucked in. 50s and 60s vintage maxi dresses in cotton or linen. Lots of tan, white, khaki. Halterneck summer cotton dresses. Big shades. Dramatically gigantic (I mean, huge!) hat. Metallic sandals.
I usually dress up if I can: gold lamé, vintage silk cocktail dresses in aqua or navy.
I love clothes. Wearing something beautiful every day adds a great deal of joy to my life.
Also: HoC is amazing. I didn't change how I dressed once I realised I was an Autumn but I did start doing so in different colours.
In terms of finding your style, have you considered doing a pinterest board of looks that you love, identifying any themes and then going from there?