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Had Botox , can someone reassure me

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Blablablaboo · 02/07/2019 21:36

I had Botox for the first time in my life today. I have thought about this for years and chickened our numerous times. I never thought I would get this done but I have really severe frown lines, I’ve had them since my teens (yes...) , I remember being called “ granny face “ etc in school. I am really into a natural lifestyle so it’s not something I’d ever thought I’d do. It just got to the stage where my frown lines went from in between my eyes all the way to my hairline. I have tried face yoga, acupuncture, frownies.. nothing worked. I wear hats and glasses all the time, I just had enough. I went to a very reputable dr and she was hugely reassuring.

But I suffer badly with anxiety. I’m now terrified that something will go wrong and that I’ll get really ill. I can’t tell my dh as he would massively disapprove and I just feel quite panicky. I have a slight bruise too. I never keep anything from him so this is weird for me. I’m just worried as I have three young kids and so concerned I’ve done something stupid for vanity. At the same time my frown lines were making me very down. Can someone who gets Botox reassure me please.

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Ladybirdbookworm · 02/07/2019 21:54

I haven't had it but some of my friends have. It's done now and you are fine. Please calm down and realise that your anxiety is controlling your thoughts and catastrophising it. It was done by a doctor, it's becoming such a common procedure and even sali Hughes the beauty blogger has had a couple of bits of botox. You are fine .

Betty777 · 02/07/2019 22:03

Please calm down! I had it last night (my fourth time). A friend who is a doctor came to be treated too and it was done by a nurse. I dont' think either of them would be involved if it were worrying.

You will potentially have a bruise, and it may take two weeks to take full effect. But you will be fine. And you will have less wrinkles for the next six months

Ilikesweetpeas · 02/07/2019 22:03

I've had it loads, no side effects ever. Please try not to worry. I always think it's not worked then a few days later I look so fresh faced! Enjoy the results

Fuzzyend · 02/07/2019 22:08

I've had it. No issues.and no longer have a forehead like Gordon Ramsey- which is nice!

Goodmum1234 · 02/07/2019 22:33

I’ve had it for the first time today too. I’m really excited about it all. I have large wrinkles in my forehead and I’m looking forward to them disappearing. I’m sure it’ll be the same for you too x

BeautifulBlaze · 02/07/2019 22:40

It's no big deal these days and it will wear off in a few months, the body breaks it down and takes it away! ... calm down! Your only problem now is you'll never want to be without it, it's an expensive addiction chill out and await the amazing results!

Carrotcakeforbreakfast · 02/07/2019 23:09

I bloody love botox
Honestly the difference is amazing. I always look like I've had a months holiday

EmmaC78 · 02/07/2019 23:13

I have had it with no issues. Try not to worry OP.

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Blablablaboo · 02/07/2019 23:15

Thank you so much for the reassurance. I’m seriously risk adverse so panicked a bit. I think it’s also the fact that I can’t talk to anyone about it in real life. My frown lines re very severe so they’ll probably be soften more than disappear but that would already be a huge boost. I just feel really weird having something injected into me... I keep wondering can I lie down or touch my face. Will it spread etc. also the dr was very good and talked me through everything but I do see tiny marks and a small bump and worry someone might notice . Hopefully these go down ..

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pazwaz70 · 02/07/2019 23:22

I've just had mine redone today. You will have tiny pin pricks that look like tiny,tiny bee stings. It probably won't kick in until about 2 weeks time so don't panic.
However,depending on your age it may take several times for it to really kick in. I'm nearly 50 and it's taken several treatments for it to really take hold.
I love it and I only wish I started having it when I was younger!
I also have a small amount of lip fillers done. I currently feel like I've been punched in the mouth 😫
Botox doesn't hurt but I find lip fillers do!

Mog6840 · 02/07/2019 23:23

You will be fine. I've had if done twice because of frown lines which I felt were far too bad for my years!
I had massive anxiety about it just like you and even fainted after I had it the first time (how embarrassing!)
I think it was because, like you, I chose but to tell nobody, not even my husband and it made me feel uneasy.
I loved the results and it's been a year since I last had it due to pregnancy and finances but the lines have not returned to how bad they were before! Try to relax!

browzingss · 03/07/2019 00:35

Botox is a pretty safe procedure to be honest, you’re definitely over thinking it. The side effects are much less severe than filler for example and so are less noticeable.

The tiny bruise/bump will fade quickly, just use topical ointments and makeup. Also the product will not move around, you can continue all normal activities!

janaus50s · 03/07/2019 00:42

Good luck. I have a question about Botox. Obviously I am older. 50 plus. My mother had terrible skin, and I am turning into my mother.
Do you think Botox is ok for older people. Or are fillers best?

Gosh, and will they think, why bother, if I went to a skin centre?

Saltystraw · 03/07/2019 00:44

I get it done, so do many of my friends.. I love it! The first time felt so strange at first with pressure in my forehead but it goes away. I’ve never had any issues and neither has any of my friends. It’s the only thing I really splurge on and it makes me feel so much better about myself.

Saltystraw · 03/07/2019 00:46

Janaus50s if your frown lines are too deep then you will need fillers. Botox is more for the earlier stages or preventative and no skin place will think don’t bother.. they deal with this all the time.

Hithere12 · 03/07/2019 00:48

If you are that worried about your health just don’t get it done again. Once is fine but we don’t know the long term effects yet.

Hithere12 · 03/07/2019 00:52

Everyone’s posts are making me want to get Botox 😂 how much do you all pay for it? I’d want it round my eyes, my forehead is smooth but my eye area isn’t great

Cookit · 03/07/2019 08:59

I had it ages a go a few times but haven’t post DC and I’m DESPERATE to do it again. You look like yourself just a little bit more awake / less tired... like the way getting a bit of sun suddenly transforms your face. Enjoy the effects OP!!

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Blablablaboo · 03/07/2019 13:40

Thanks for your replies. In all honesty , I’m still feeling very worried and apprehensive. It’s really set off my anxiety and I feel a bit vain and pathetic.
It’s easy to wonder why put myself through this like of course it’s not necessary but I can’t stress how bad my lines are , I’m 33 and it honestly looks a bit abnormal like I have other wrinkles that I don’t think twice about, actually like laughter lives around my eyes , around my mouth. I have constantly been told I look exhausted, stern, angry looking. I have had frown lines since around 16. I think when it kicks in I’ll feel a million times better. I just keep panicking worrying about another part of my face being affected or getting really ill. I know it’s not rational and that I have to address my anxiety and to deal with it before getting any other treatment for my frown lines.
It’s defo helpful to hear of others experiences

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goodluckandgodspeed · 03/07/2019 17:18

I’m 36 and if I could afford it I’d have it in a heartbeat. I’m probably a lost cause tbh though. Lines are already awful and face is very ugly!

Milliy · 03/07/2019 17:47

What about a fringe?

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Blablablaboo · 03/07/2019 19:35

I think fringes are great too for forehead lines but your face really has to suit a fringe and you’d hair. I had a fringe for years which I hated but my forehead lines are so strong and noticeable that I had no choice. The fringe would never stay put, in rain once it dries it just curled up, in wind it was gone. It never sat there.

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Carrotcakeforbreakfast · 04/07/2019 18:12

OP honestly don't worry.

Give it a week and you will be amazed.

BeautifulBlaze · 31/07/2019 00:40

Do you LOVE your results?

fairycakes1234 · 02/03/2021 16:09

@Blablablaboo

Thanks for your replies. In all honesty , I’m still feeling very worried and apprehensive. It’s really set off my anxiety and I feel a bit vain and pathetic. It’s easy to wonder why put myself through this like of course it’s not necessary but I can’t stress how bad my lines are , I’m 33 and it honestly looks a bit abnormal like I have other wrinkles that I don’t think twice about, actually like laughter lives around my eyes , around my mouth. I have constantly been told I look exhausted, stern, angry looking. I have had frown lines since around 16. I think when it kicks in I’ll feel a million times better. I just keep panicking worrying about another part of my face being affected or getting really ill. I know it’s not rational and that I have to address my anxiety and to deal with it before getting any other treatment for my frown lines. It’s defo helpful to hear of others experiences

Just looking at this thread, how do you feel now a year on? WOuld you get it again? Hope you are doing well

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