Many moons ago I was a children's dance teacher so I have every admiration for you arkela.
This is none of my business but after my second pregnancy I piled on the pounds, by all means lose weight and enjoy the journey but there really is a lot to be said for loving your body as you are, rather than as you plan to be. I know that's easier said than done but one of my friends is a size 18 and she always looks gorgeous. Properly stunning. I'm sure you do too but do what you need to do to be happy 
Mine was traditionally a very male dominated industry, when I first started out the casual sexism was shocking. At first I took it but about 10 years ago I found the courage to point out how hurtful it was. It didn't always win me friends but it sometimes earned me respect and made the perpetrators think. There's been a huge push towards training and employing women over the past few years, it's fantastic to see and, of course, the whole industry ethos and atmosphere has improved.
So I agree absolutely, employing the best person for the job should be celebrated.
Back to the far less important matter of clothes...
I've found some lovely dresses though, again, some may not be as appealing when they arrive and taking the sleeves or length need taking up. Having been through my wardrobe I have some dresses that will go with the others.
In step with my new workplace I'm trying to push my style slightly from the standard office suiting.
Predictably, I'm struggling to find good quality petite blazers in any colour other than navy, black or sometimes grey but I'm on it. If anyone has any ideas for possible shops as a solution please add them.
I've found 4 pairs of shoes though I need to rein in my magpie tendencies for sparkle and 2 handbags to be fair I could live without them I always wear my wedding ring, engagement ring both of which are beautiful and some fine silver bangles. I'll swap out my existing diamond earrings with pearl earrings with my pearl necklace or one of my other necklaces. I have enough coats and separates to see me through the short term.
I do need a new watch but that can wait for a couple of months.
I've seen some Hermes scarves I like but I'm still not sure how to wear them and whether they will go with the wardrobe I will have accumulated and, if I'm honest, I'm not sure how to tie them.
Hair appointments are booked, see also brows and I will do my own nails. My makeup is fine but I'll make a trip to SpaceNK and Bobbi Brown for a refresh.
I'm going to book in for a course of 1:1 yoga sessions and do plenty of walking and some bad running I'm terrible!
What have I missed?
Please keep any ideas coming.
Thank you.