Two questions please: 1) Where do you put your arms when you are having a back massage? Some treatment tables are too narrow for them to go at your sides (I'm size 14) but if I hang them over the sides too long I get pins and needles. If above my head would that get in the therapist's way? Should I just ask? 2) When having a facial, and the therapist is cleaning around your nose, should you move your mouth/top lip so it stretches the skin for them to get all the scrub granules out? TIA