I have been going to the same hairdresser for about eight years. I go regularly every six weeks for a cut and blow dry and every twelve weeks for a semi-permanent colour.
The colour has always been admired by friends for the way it blended with my natural colour and how my grey hair was barely noticeable although not fully coloured.
I was surprised when I went for my latest appointment that the colour in the bowl was quite orange as previously it has been a creamy yellow. I had asked her to blend three shades when I started going to her. Three years ago I asked her to leave the darkest shade out as I was getting greyer and wanted it to tone in better.
As she started she said j"Just your usual" and I commented it seemed a different shade. I knew she wasn't telling the truth when she said it was the same as usual. Later she said that hair always fades in the sun.
When finished it was obviously darker. My husband says it is darker. My complexion is quite sallow as I age and it give. s me a hard look, I feel. Also my head has been throbbing. Until I wash it I can't feel certain that she hasn't used a permanent colour on it as it just looks different.
What do I do? I have always liked the way she cuts hair but I am distressed that she would do this.
Is there anything I can do to lighten it?