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New Blogger Luludumas

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User160 · 24/05/2018 20:53

Bren following the Instagram bloggers thread.....and see lots of new mummy bloggers coming up. One I follow is Luludumas, anyone else following? What surprises me is how quickly someone like her has gone from being a follower to posting an occasional blog but doing loads of stories and now getting press invites - they all seemed to go to see Chicago last night - free gifts from Wynser, Wyse and even now m&s!

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Confusssed · 13/06/2018 09:38

I don't buy into this facile 'Be kind' sheep-like demeanor. It's just the latest asinine Insta-Buzz-Phrase and it's highly annoying.

LoftheM frankly looks frail and her physique just screams 'early on-set oesteoporosis' to me.

And I have just unfollowed AMothersEdit because I'm just so weary of her endless, painfully posed & carefully angled shots, always captioned with the faux 'Oh but I look terrible, just look as this smidge of sunburn on my otherwise perfectly bronzed legs posed to make my thighs look as slim as possible

And, it's not envy. I also enjoy a privileged lifestyle.

EdinaMonsoon · 13/06/2018 09:54

DISCLAIMER: I'm not an IG blogger nor an Instamum "super-fan" Grin. I just wanted to give another perspective to the notion that everything they get is promoted in exchange for freebies & gifts.

It just so happens that Luludumas has bought clothing from my (very!) small business & paid the same as everyone else, without any discount etc. I'm not in a position to offer freebies or discounts and she's never asked for any either. She simply came across my feed on IG, liked what she saw and bought it. From my perspective, she has used her position to genuinely promote a small brand without any incentive to do so. I was absolutely thrilled when she posted a photo on her feed and I received orders and an increased following as a result. That's made a huge difference to someone like me who has zero budget (let alone one specifically for advertising & promotion). I honestly don't think I can be the only one that she has done this for.

Other bloggers with a significantly higher following have contacted me to express interest in an item only to make it clear that it would be a business arrangement - give it to me for free and I'll promote it (not put that bluntly but you get my drift). In most cases, my pieces are made to order. I'm not going to give away an entire working week, plus material costs on the off-chance that someone else might buy an item that the blogger is putting out there. I think it's grabby and certainly goes against the whole "women supporting women" bullshit so lovingly promoted by insta-huns.

Obviously, gifting is rife on IG with many big brands realising that it's cheaper to give away a dozen coats than to run a big ad campaign. I think it's disingenuous to say that we wouldn't happily accept such gifts if they were offered to us in return for slapping a quick photo up on IG.

That said, as a slow-fashion designer, I think this type of promotion feeds the constant pressure to be on to the next "must-have", fast-fashion crap rather than careful consideration of what you buy. Not just that you love it but the conditions under which it was made, quality of fabrics and production (so many of these must-haves are polyester, atrociously made items that I wouldn't buy in a million years), and what happens to it when you sling it to buy the next must-have?

EdinaMonsoon · 13/06/2018 09:56

Confusssed - agreed, the constant "oh I'm such a mess" BS gets right on my nerves. It's very attention-seeking & deeply unattractive. CLTS is another one guilty of that and it gets on my wick!

Amortentia · 13/06/2018 10:10

Confusssed - agreed, the constant "oh I'm such a mess" BS gets right on my nerves. It's very attention-seeking & deeply unattractive. CLTS is another one guilty of that and it gets on my wick!

Totally agree, drives me nuts. Especially adult women who use animal filters becuase they believe that there unmade-up face is so hideous, get a grip.

Amortentia · 13/06/2018 10:14

their unmade-up face, fgs.

Confusssed · 13/06/2018 10:54

It irritates me because they might as well just post "Praise me, praise me, praise me". It is so transparent what they are doing. If you genuinely have a downer about your appearance then you don't get your OH to take endless photos of you draped over a Grecian wall, with a Gucci sandal winsomely dangling from your perfectly pedicured foot Hmm Tossing in a throwaway "Oh but look at my awful barely visible tan lines" doesn't fool anyone with half a brain cell.

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