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Bought this. Looks nice on, I think. BUT I am NOT an off-the-shoulder person at all. I have very broad shoulders so when I tried it on it just sort of sat on the edges of my shoulders creating kind of a Bardot neckline. Which I liked. Can I wear it this way, do you think, or will is look like I'm an idiot who doesn't realise it's meant to be worn pulled right down off the shoulders?
The way I'm wearing it, sitting on the edge of the tops of my shoulders, seems to suit me quite well and frames my head/face well, if that makes sense. Cos I'm so wide across the shoulders, the fabric doesn't massively sag wierdly, either, I mean it obviously isn't taut at all and it does drape down but it isn't much of an issue. I don't think.
Plus, it's going to be v warm tomorrow. Can I wear it on the school run (with white trainers) or will I look like I've lost my way to the nearest beach?
for context, I am 40 (look a couple of years younger) and a size 10 (on my bottom half, size roughly 1 million on my top half due to aforementioned massive shoulders.)
I don't usually do dresses so this is a BIG STEP for me 
forgive me if these are all very stupid questions.