Recommendations anyone for butt lifting waist clinching underwear ?

[Tinkerbellx]

It a bit of a family joke that I have no butt
Lego bottom is one nickname ! ( all taken in good spirit honestly ) .
So I'm a small 12 from the waist down and at 47 having had 4 dc my tummy and waist could be better too !
I know long term exercise and diet is the answer but I have a really nice tea dress I want to wear to a special occasion .
I could do with ? Spanx underneath .
It would need to be skin coloured, just in case, as the dress is above knee but I'd really like something that clinched my waist / flattened my tummy and gave me a butt !
I've seen those cut out ones and quite like them more than anything with padding .
Never worn anything like that before . Would you wear your own pants underneath ?

I can't really make my thighs any smaller as their unshapely and tiny so just butt upwards really iykwim .
Would I be better popping along to one of the high street stores maybe or can anyone please recommend something ?
TIA x

Exercise is the answer.

You can get padded pants; and probably wear them with Spanx, but I'd be surprised if it wasn't really restrictive and uncomfortable - and to be honest, if it's a friendly running joke that you have no butt, it'd be really noticeable that you were wearing padding. You'd only need the padding to slip or something for a never forgotten family moment!

Exercise is the answer long term; short term I'd go with Spanx under your dress if you'd be more comfortable with it; and work on your butt long term if that'd make you happier.

I bet your tea dress will look nicer like that anyway