I need a good stylist. Over the years I have had short, medium and long hair. I currently have medium length hair. If my hair gets too long it looks terrible, I have quite dry hair that is quite thick and in the past I have had it thinned out. A friend recommended her stylist but it was too far to travel so I left after a few visits. The hairdresser did my hair nicely but it was too short to pull into a ponytail so I grew it longer, I tried a local stylist who criticised the way my hair had been cut telling me the layers were too short and to grow them out a bit which I did but it now looks too thick and frizzy and that is what happens when I grow it too long. Someone told me that my problem is that I want what I cannot have because of the type of hair I have and I must be content with what looks better even if it is not what I want. I am convinced that if I find the right stylist I can have what I want and it would look nice. Does anyone else have this issue?