I have neglected myself for a long time

[Passportto]

More because of lack of time/inclination than because of lack of money.

I'm 48 tallish and slim. I do have a decent haircut on a regular basis and don't need colour as I have natural pale blonde hair and haven't found the grey yet. Other than that, I do precious little for my appearance.

Skin is not too bad and I think I look fairly young or at least no older than my age. I do generally eat well, exercise and drink enough water, it's the more cosmetic things I don't do. I suppose I look "well" but not groomed.

I have six days off from Saturday. If I did one (or two) things a day what would make most difference?

Get your eyebrows done. If that's something you don't do regularly it'll make such a difference

Shaped eyebrows, facial, regular exfoliation, targeted concealers for pigmentation problems. Pale skin often needs a fake tan to look good as you get older.

Agree with getting eyebrows done, shaped and maybe tinted. A shellac pedicure is also worthwhile.

Turn out your clothes and go through them. Be honest, what do you wear, what do you like, what are you keeping because

1. it will come back around. (Usually, it does but it may not fit then. Unless you adore it, consider charity shop)
2. it was a sale bargain and you've never worn it. Get rid.
3. it's crammed with happy memories. Fold it up in acid free tissue and store it; show it to your children, and explain.
4. it's much loved and comfortable (this could be tired and tatty from wear or current; you decide)

Having shifted the rubbish, have a and reflect on what's left behind. Do you have the basics?

Jeans, in a shape and size that fits and flatters. This is where you spend most money, and lots of time trying on. Two pairs, one dark indigo because you can always do jeans and a nice top for anything but the smartest occasions, with heels. The others can be the downgraded second pair or the best of the rest. In my life, my favourite old ones are kept for gardening/housework/etc.

Tops: I like to have T shirts to wear under sweaters. I get them from Uniqlo mostly, often on sale. My most worn are grey marl, charcoal, black, and navy blue. I also have 3 white (some shabby), pale pink, pale blue and a couple of brighter summer colours.

I have 3 plain jersey dresses, in solid colours and dark colours. Different lengths (longish black long sleeve, knee length in pale grey and denim blue).

Mostly, my coats are chosen to be warm and waterproof; I am also the same size as DS, so we share them. We have a dog.

I have been building my wardrobe for 40 years, and it's more extensive than I have admitted, but these items are my basics. Not fashionable but carefully chosen for colour and fit. Nothing in my cupboard that I couldn't wear tomorrow. I never throw accessories away provided they are in good condition. A scarf/hat/gloves that doesn't work for you at the moment (but in colour that suits) is not taking up much space, should be kept.

Apologies for the lecture.