Othgraph me neither. It’s a mean spirited thing to say the least
It really, really is! And yet, that is just what some people are like and you’ll almost always (ime) get some of those people at big events like weddings. It’s fine if that doesn’t bother you - I wish I was more like that! But, I have to be honest and say that it would bother me, (only for a short time on the actual day you understand- it wouldn’t be life ruining), if people made bitchy comments about my outfit. So I dress to avoid that and not draw any negative attention as much as I dress to look nice at these things. It’s just because of feeling so awkward at a previous wedding as I said up thread. Now I do tend to stick to certain ‘rules’ at weddings, especially if I don’t know many of the other guests.