Frequency - what you're saying for the appropriate approach sounds much more like what should have been done.
No, she didn't have pre-existing brown dye - that went a long time ago. She just had bleached and natural roots. Sorry it's difficult to explain as the poor bugger's been through some right nightmares with her hair. I thought I'd found someone decent this time who knew what they were doing but clearly not.
It's all very well and good saying go back (for those who have said this!) but if she doesn't know how to do it right in the first place, will she be able to pull it back?
DD will NOT have her hair cut. She's had a hatchet job on it (the first time she had it dyed green (not on purpose) - she looked like she'd been run over by a lawnmower, I could have cut it better myself and she's been grown the length again for over a year and a half.
She's walking round at the moment looking and feeling like a right numpty. I'm nearly £100 down having placed my faith, again, in a hairdresser who said 'yes we can do this and it will be fine'. This is the THIRD salon!
The last one, put ash silver and grey on top of her yellow blonde but only put the foils on the top half of her whole head! She walked out with silver grey ash on the top half of her head, and manky yellow on the bottom!
It's not my job to 'step away from the toners', it's the hairdresser's job to say 'it can't be done' or 'I don't have the experience to do this' or whatever, that's actually the truth. But they're guessing and messing - with my money. And DDs hair looks a bloody MESS, she looks awful. She's got prom in July - I guess we'll have to get her hair coloured the day before so it lasts long enough for her to get her prom out of the way!! Rrrr. I get all your comments about porosity and can understand how that would affect things, but the hairdresser should have said it's gonna go green or I can't do it. She most certainly didn't suggest any violet option.
Now I guess I'll have the same struggle to have to back to a salon where they clearly don't know what they're doing and when she tells me she'll do it again, I'll be into battle mode to get my money back because she's not doing it again if she simply suggests repeating what she did before, which clearly hasn't worked.
I literally don't know how much more of an expensive salon I can go to and actually find someone who knows colour and can actually a. be honest about the options and if one of the options is to proceed b. knows the technique and correct approach to do that.
It's bad when literally you'd have been no worse off with a blinkin' box dye! No actually the stylist wasn't trying to ombre. She applied the same toner for the same amount of time to all the blonde hair regardless of lengths of whether she was applying to mid lengths or the ends (which were of course drier).
You know, I used to love going to the hairdressers. It was my little place of tranquility, bit of a laugh and time just for me and latterly DD. Now it's just one disappointing and expensive event after another.
At least I'm getting an idea of what sort of approach she would need to take although I'm not sure now actually how successful even that would be - but I a VERY appreciative of all the help.