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Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!

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TossDaily · 28/12/2017 11:00

Excuse the franglais.

Here it is - the third thread in the series, where we add a little je ne sais quoi to our lives, inspired by the style of our souers across the Channel.

Thanks to our top contributor and style guru Botemp, we are finding ways to lift ourselves out of the style doldrums with a slash of red on the lips, a touch of white where it counts, an insouciant scarf or even an over the knee sock or two for the brave among us.

Take it as far as you dare, Mariannes!

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ToElleWithIt · 26/01/2018 10:32

Very pretty EdinaMonsoon I love the covered buttons. The gold chain is perfect too.

cactusbutt · 26/01/2018 10:45

That's gorgeous Edina. LOVE the colour and collar on the blouse.

Floisme · 26/01/2018 12:23

Sock those tulip shape trousers were down for a January release when I first looked, as was the jacket, but I hadn't checked in the last week. Doesn't really matter as it's hardly weather for them at the moment but I'm slightly annoyed that I wasted time looking for them and so lost out on the cotton twill shirt. But I'm sure there will be returns if I remember to stalk. I wondered if you'd got the jeans! Also I saw your question about alterations and meant to say, I've never had a waistband lowered but I quite often buy things second hand and get them altered and the only time they've ever said 'no' was when I asked about a coat with raglan shoulders. I imagine it would mean a new zip too which is perfectly do-able but will add to the cost.

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 12:29

I want to buy this.

www.coast-stores.com/p/nico-pleated-pearl-shirt/1930406

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 12:29

I love shirts, but find normal ones a bit boring, I like that this one has a good waist too.

botemp · 26/01/2018 12:35

Water levels still rising Sad On the plus side so are temperatures, which has me in coat conundrums again. Now contemplating taking a leather jacket (but a few sizes too big so not the best fit but can layer a big jumper underneath) and my cape to layer over it when it's colder as it doesn't require much space packing wise but is rather impractical. Probably best to just take the warm Jon Snow parka and suffer some overheating on the metro now and then.

My Joseph LL and K. Jacques sandals came in yesterday. Unfortunately had to send it all back again, the LL were the right size on paper (FR 34, my usual size, was a bit confusing as they'd listed various conversion sizes which didn't make sense) but they were too big regardless I refuse to accept I've gone down another size but if you happen to be in Paris next week and spot a tourist having a massive hissy fit that may be me, no love lost though as they were much brighter green than the dark bottle green they appeared to be online so even with a perfect fit I would have returned them. I ordered two sizes of the K. Jacques and whilst the smaller of the two was fine my entire front foot seemed to slip on through, don't really consider my feet narrow at the front, average I would say and narrow at the back so was a bit odd, summer shoes are usually a touch tight. Shame, they were lovely and a good price. On the upside, more money for Paris Grin

Sock, was it the Welsh jeans this time? I think jeans are the worst to get right online, the sizes are all over the place, even within a single brand they're rarely consistent.

Other, I would wager neutral that leans cool. Though it's all just a theory, there will be plenty who just don't fit in a black and white way. Even if you tick the boxes to a T on all fronts, it remains a starting point. Time of year makes a big difference, light is harsher and colder in winter and vice versa. I'm neutral that leans warm (with a warm body but cool hair) but in winter I can be mistaken for cool, especially if I have redness from sensitivities acting up and I dye my hair a shade darker and knock some of the summer red out of it. Speaking of hair dye, do you find that harder to get right? I've given up on it mostly, it's either very expensive with several colours in advanced techniques or a semi that is slightly transparent, which is a lot more affordable but rather dull and more successful in winter than summer for me.

jane, thanks again, Aine looks lovely and very well priced. Will also look at the arancrafts site Edina. Thanks, both. Now to stop looking at that Aran jumper on the Burberry's men's site.

I've done Venice with high water too Edina, but it was unseasonably warm and sunny as well in spring, so quite doable in flip-flops Blush. It's one of my favourite cities in Italy and I'd really anticipated not liking it all that much, mostly been out of season which I think makes it less Disneyland for adults. Speaking of Italy, WRT Rome, it's probably my least liked city if I have to be honest. It's a bit, once you've been there once and seen the major sites (there really isn't much else, plenty of it, also worth venturing a bit out of the way, I remember really enjoying Hadrian's Villa, the restaurant there had amazing food as well but I think it's an hour out of Rome). The restaurants are all generally tourist traps if you're not careful, tacking on a lot of extra charges (most notably for inedible bread) and the food is mediocre where anywhere else in Italy you struggle to eat badly. My tip, look for the most dreary restaurants with fluorescent lighting (a flickering one is a plus), staff that argues with each other and where the tablecloths don't match their uniforms. If there's a giant TV playing football really loudly you know you're in for good food. recently aired, probably a few addresses in there worth looking up. The Autogrill restaurants are usually good for a quick bite, especially since you're with DC, they're a bit like food courts fast food but Italian style, not the best in ambiance but cheap and lots of choice food wise, I'm always rather fond of the Arrancini at Spizzico (which sells pizza slices which also are pretty good).

S&B wise, I love Sermoneta Gloves, the shops are a feast for the eyes alone. They're a lovely treat without blowing the bank to insanity levels, I always remember where I bought them, fond memories of the holidays whenever I put them on. I'd be surprised if they didn't have a shop in Rome too. There's a very spendy street by the Spanish steps which is good for window shopping, go just after closing time to flâneur like the Italiens seem to always do, they're just as interesting as the shop windows, maybe more so. Max Mara is relatively more affordable there and a lot of their other brands are more easily available. Stefanel is always worth having a nose in.

overine, have you had a look at the invisible heels I linked to in a previous thread? They may be useful for you too to get that lift in flatter shoes.

pretty, I always like to regard funerals as a celebration of someone's life rather than a cold demarcation of their end. The dressing up is less about respect for me but about acknowledging and remembering a life well lived and also in memory of how they would see you. We always tend think the world of others but rarely ourselves. Someone who thought the world of you always saw you at your finest, only fair to make that a reality on their day, especially if you thought the world of them too. Hope all goes well Monday Flowers

cactus, thing is I actually do a lot of yoga without realising it. I do burpees as a warmup and they're an altered version that includes two sets of downward and up dogs and a seal dive (but maybe that one is a Pilates move?). Pilates also has a load of yoga in it, just on its own it doesn't appeal, I've wondered if it's down to the pace or the fact that I'm hypermobile (so it doesn't feel as challenging and when it is challenging I'm constantly safeguarding that I don't end up with injuries, Hot Yoga was the worst experience ever). Anyhow, I agree with quirky that an exercise you enjoy doing is the best type.

Elle, I'm now left wondering if we ended up buying the same Dries skirt as mine was also too big (but I knew this ahead of time) but a lot longer than expected (thought it was midi but it's below the ankles on me). I attempted to take a picture of it when it came in but the light wasn't working with me, is yours also a brocade pleated one? Have to say the DMag CS was also very friendly, had to contact them for returns and they were lovely, yet to receive my money back but it's still within the projected time frame.

Mary, ehm I haven't really looked at them much lately Blush. Have been preoccupied debating the Joseph coat, I'm still leaning towards keeping as there have been several occasions where I see it hanging and would have ripped off the tags and taken it out had the weather been warmer. I've also been looking at my leather jackets which is usually what I start wearing at the end of winter and realised they're all massive now, they look fine worn open but not closed and it won't be open coat season for quite some time so the Joseph coat will helpfully bridge that gap I think.

Anyhow, sorry for ramblings. I went three sizes bigger with the 501s, one size bigger looked the same as one down awful. Two sizes up looked like I had a prolapse at the back I was steadily losing faith at this point and the legs were an awkward not wide enough, not fitted enough for a boyfriend fit look. Three sizes up gave the look I wanted but they do sit perilously loose on my hips and they will stretch a half size. I've attached their up-sizing materials so you can sort of see the difference (although it's the 501 CT version which is more tailored I believe, I should really try one of those ones on), although with the 501 I think body shape makes a big difference. Mine is called 'You Pretty Thing', if you google that you can see it on a whole host of different models, on some a more fitted version is definitely more flattering, on me the blunt raw edge isn't all that flattering but on taller people, it looks much better. I've always found the 501 a challenging cut, but it's nice to have found a new way to look at it.

Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!
Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!
Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!
botemp · 26/01/2018 12:47

Do peplums work for you Ovelina? If you're narrow on top and wider on the bottom wouldn't it emphasise that more? Would depend on how exaggerated you are in your body type, I think. Often high waisted peplums like that tend to be more flattering on those who don't have much waist definition, with narrowing hips to balance out the extra volume.

I personally wouldn't be able to put up with ironing all those pleats, I fear it would forever languish on an iron pile and never see the light of day.

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 13:01

Haha bo you are probably right re the pleats! Honestly, I'm not sure how unbalanced I am, as I no longer know what is just my own perception of my body and what is the truth.

Also no I haven't seen those, I will have a look back.

I think the thing with peplum is that it stops being clear what's you and what's the clothes, which can work, or it can just absolutely emphasise wideness. It would depend how much of my bottom it covered I think!

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 13:04

I also liked this but worried it would be too baggy on top, to make it wide enough over my hips. This is why I need to be here!

www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-pom-trim-shirt-white/p3393029?sku=237098919&s_kwcid=2dx92700028127720106&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gclid=Cj0KCQiAwKvTBRC2ARIsAL0Dgk1cTtzEnT_ceu82lzrF3aRVuufFrgW0orVtYbKRRMEeYpSFcC9SekIaAnnhEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 13:12

Oh brilliant!

Mine main problem is I just buy lots of jumpers because I get disheartened about buying anything else! So I live in jeans because I haven't got any other bottoms! I'm such a disaster and so un-French. Feel free to kick me out. Quel dommage!

botemp · 26/01/2018 13:13

That shirt at least has splits on the side but they'd have to end just at the right point to make sure it doesn't catch and that it flows well from top to bottom, you don't just want it hanging there like a bib. It's a bit of a gamble from internet pics alone.

I think it's always difficult, when we sort of have an image of our body shape to gravitate to things that already have that shape, the thing is they're usually made for other body shapes to lean into that body shape. Lots of hourglass shapes look dreadful on an hourglass, if an IT goes heavy on the shoulder pads they only emphasise that bulk, I think pears have the same issue. Think only the up and down get away with the same silhouette but it's often one they're not too fond of.

OCSockOrphanage · 26/01/2018 13:20

Yes, the Welsh jeans, Bo. The fit and colour were great so I have ordered two sizes smaller. If those are good, then either/or between COS and Uniqlo and, boom boom, my jean requirements are nailed! Until the next change of mood, naturally.

OverinaFlash · 26/01/2018 13:21

I think I have got out of the habit of shopping in shops, rather than buying online, which means I never just play 'try on'. Or I need to buy too many things at once, to make an outfit, and get decision paralysis.

quirkychick · 26/01/2018 13:49

ToElle that was the article, I follow a few people on IG, who do fitness because it's quite motivating, but some are ridiculous. Just lots of bum exercises. I have quite a rounded bum but mostly if you saw me from the side as I don't have much hips. I do have quite muscular calves, even if I do no exercise, it's just my shape. Shouldn't we be exercising to make ourselves feel good and healthy not to punish our bodies for being the wrong shape?

Oh no, how disappointing about your green LL bo, you'll have to buy something else lovely instead. Having trouble with hair dye was one of the reasons I stopped, my original hair colour was almost black with very fair skin and blue eyes, think Celtic colouring. But, trying to find a less harsh dark dye was really hard, lighter brown went to red/orange and an ash brown went transparent. It no longer looked good, so I tried lighter and blonder, which didn't feel like me and now I'm silver.

Today, I'm doing the jumper over shirt with faux LL. My shirt is stripy, like ticking, and although oversized very fine cotton, so soft and not too starched, it fits nicely under a Uniqlo extra fine merino jumper due to the softness. Perfect for brunch with dp this morning.

Floisme · 26/01/2018 14:00

Edina I've been to Rome twice. The first time, about ten years ago, we stayed in Trastevere which was across the river, a tram ride away from most sights and a really lovely, relatively inexpensive neighbourhood with a lot of local residents and a very friendly vibe - entertainers on the main square every evening so easy to keep kids amused. But we went back for an afternoon on our more recent visit, last year and it was much hipper and edgier. In some ways that was great - lots of restaurants, cafes and independent shops - but it had lost something too and, although we left before it got late, it had clearly turned into a big drinking venue so possibly not as child friendly either, at least not late at night.

And then last year we stayed near Piazza Navona which was expensive and touristy but incredibly pretty with loads of interesting back streets. (I got lost most days) and also within walking distance of a lot of sights. So horses for courses really. bo is correct about a lot of the restaurants but we did find that, as long as we stuck to guidebook recommendations, there were good ones around that were reasonably priced (although your definition of 'reasonable' quickly adjusts). My favourite shopping street was near Piazza Navona and had a lot of independent and some vintage shops - a kind of upmarket Brick Lane. I didn't bother with the main shops as they didn't seem any different to any other European city, or with the posh shops which, as bo says, are near the Spanish Steps. (Why all the fuss about the Spanish Steps by the way? I didn't get it at all - if I want to people watch, I'll go to a cafe, thank you, with comfy seats.)

I can look up names of some of those places if you think you might be interested.

The best dressed people, in my opinion, were the old men in beautifully cut suits and hats with brims. They inspired me to go back to a more androgynous style, even though I no longer have an androgynous body.

ToElleWithIt · 26/01/2018 15:21

botemp It was pleated and the skirt itself was in a marbled kind of pattern in muted burnt orange and navy. I'm making it sounds totally revolting. I can't find a photo though. It's going to need a good few inches taken out. Enjoy the shopping in Paris. I'm so envious!
Keep thinking about that blazer too...must be sensible

Floisme · 26/01/2018 17:08

Sock sorry that earlier post wasn't very clear - not even to me! No I don't think you missed the tulip shape trousers (not unless they were all sold out by 2 minutes past 8). I assume they're keeping them back until the next U launch in March, although I can't be certain as I can't see the review page at the moment.

PinPon · 26/01/2018 18:02

Floisme and Sock - pity about the Uniqlo tulip trousers. They look very fine. I’m another one keeping a look out for some high waisted wide legs.

cactusbutt · 26/01/2018 21:25

Edina I love Rome. I find it a great city for people watching and just wandering. There's so much history everywhere - crumbling ruins tucked in everywhere, glorious palaces - and the evening passegiata is quite spectacular.

If you're checking out the Colossuem and Forum - which you should definitely do, if only once - the Monti district nearby is worth visiting for cool independent shops and cafes.

Trastavere, as Floisme mentioned, is one of my favourite districts, it's very atmospheric and it's a bit quieter on that side of the river. As you'll be there with children I can recommend pizza at Dar Poeta - it's hardly a secret spot but popular for a very good reason.

The line for the Vatican is insane, but it's pretty impressive once you're inside. Nearby there's a rather chic restaurant, Il Sorpasso - like everywhere in Italy, it's also child friendly.

I love the theatre, colour and noise of an Italian food market, the best one in Rome I've found is in Testaccio.

At sunset, the park at the Villa Borghese has spectacular views over the city and lots of buskers and street performers, from the very accomplished to the truly awful. It's also great for watching all the young, glam Romans meeting before they head out for the evening.

faustina · 27/01/2018 07:25

Popping in to say a big thank you for this thread as I'm really enjoying reading it - a refreshing change, especially the longer posts. And also the tulip trousers are now on the Uniqlo website

Floisme · 27/01/2018 10:17

So they are! And disappearing fast. Waves to Sock who I think was looking at them too. Thank you faustina I would have missed that Cake This means I'll have to keep checking in case they sneak that jacket in too.

OCSockOrphanage · 27/01/2018 14:22

Oh dear, I have been offline all morning and they are sold out now in my size. Maybe some returns will dribble back in if I am patient. Does anyone know if the stores get the collaborations outside capital cities?

MadameBronte · 27/01/2018 14:30

I've just inherited an All Saints Cecily jumper in a beautiful fawn/grey shade. Only problem is there are 2 tiny tears on the back of the neck where the label was snipped out.

I've given it to my dry cleaner to be invisibly mended, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

EdinaMonsoon · 27/01/2018 16:30

Thanks for all the Rome info. I'm now armed with a new copy of Lonely Planet (the one I had on my shelf still had the prices in Lira Grin ) and will take a look at all the places recommended to give me a better feel for the city. Floisme yes please to accommodation recs. Much appreciated.

Overina I love that Coast shirt. What you need is one of these to iron those sleeves back to perfection. Makes ironing jackets and any detailed sleeves really easy.

Inspired by Botemp , I hit the Levi''s store this morning. I already have tapered boyfriend jeans from Hush so I wanted more of a straight leg but still with that slouch. I ended up buying men's 501's in a size 31. They are perfect proper denim - no stretch! I'll post some styling ideas from my phone in a while. They also had the perfect pair of Slim Cut jeans in a vintage wash which would be great for anyone looking for straight leg/raw hem jeans (you would need to cut the sewn hem but they are seriously perfect in terms of colour & fit). I'm going back to try them next week. We had to dash before youngest DS did any more damage to my credit card - he had just coerced me into buying him a denim jacket and was working on adding a sweatshirt!

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