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Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!

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TossDaily · 28/12/2017 11:00

Excuse the franglais.

Here it is - the third thread in the series, where we add a little je ne sais quoi to our lives, inspired by the style of our souers across the Channel.

Thanks to our top contributor and style guru Botemp, we are finding ways to lift ourselves out of the style doldrums with a slash of red on the lips, a touch of white where it counts, an insouciant scarf or even an over the knee sock or two for the brave among us.

Take it as far as you dare, Mariannes!

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cactusbutt · 18/01/2018 22:19

TheOtherGirl, wow, your matte blue sequin skirt sounds lovely. Absolutely loving everyone's charity shop finds, it's a great reminder that style doesn't have to send you bankrupt.

I'm also really loving this thread. I'm going through a bit of a rough time at the moment, checking in here every so often is a reminder to keep dabbing that red lipstick on and hold my head up.

It's also been great for helping me to appreciate other womens' style. Rather than just looking at someone and thinking "oh, doesn't she look great" and feeling vaguely envious, I'm noticing the details that bring the look together - a turned up sleeve, a perfect pair of flats. There are so many well-dressed women out there!

Theshipsong · 18/01/2018 23:08

My Banana Republic trousers arrived today, they are called a sloan fit in a petite size and I really like them. I They are a nice fit on my body shape (big hips) and finish just at my ankle and I think/hope they look quite stylish. I won't wear until I can wear without socks with a flat shoe. Mine are a brown camel colour which I hope will be suitable for Spring (plus they were on sale).

I used buy work trousers from Cos in a similar style but I haven't worn them since I left work. I'm unsure if I associate them with work or whether I feel they are too office like. The BR are casual in comparison but still smart enough to feel good. If anybody is ordering, size down as the sizes are very generous.

TheOtherGirl · 19/01/2018 09:08

cactus thank you, I'm really looking forward to wearing it tomorrow night. It's a little loose on the hips but my MIL trained as a seamstress so might see if she can alter it.

I have a lot on my plate at the moment because my Mum is seriously ill. Faffing about with clothes + make up is a welcome escape.

ToElleWithIt · 19/01/2018 09:52

Theothergirl The skirt sounds lovely, enjoy the night out. Sorry that your Mum is unwell; that must be tough.

Thanks for the feedback on the trainers AuldAlliance and schmalex

Have tried layering up a couple of necklaces today and it has definitely lifted an otherwise pretty ordinary outfit.

schmalex · 19/01/2018 10:55

Skirt sounds lovely theothergirl. Is it only me that can never find anything decent in a charity shop?! Everything seems to be all worn out and bobbly. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong ones.
Going back to the 'having your colours done' thing, it's obviously not an exact science as I had an hour with a stylist the other day and she looked at my colours and thought I was a winter (previously I had been told by HoC that I'm an autumn). I'm feeling much happier with black, grey, cobalt, etc than sludgy old brown, khaki and orange!
I also tried on a couple of Chanel rouge allure velvet lipsticks (Rouge Feu (warm) and Rouge Vie (more bluey)) and I liked both. The one I left in wore well and was lovely and non-drying. Unfortunately they were both out of stock...

schmalex · 19/01/2018 10:58

I picked up this jumpsuit from Oasis yesterday, very simple and emphasises my good bits.

Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!
ProperLavs · 19/01/2018 16:32

jumpsuit looks fab. I wouldn't know how to wear one!

I ordered a cashmere and merino sort of poncho wrap( in the sale) from woolovers. It came today . I only ordered it 3 days ago but it has already been reduced by another £5 which really hacks me off. No point sending it back as the return postage and journey to postoffice would completely negate any savings. Grr.

botemp · 19/01/2018 21:13

Lots to catch up on! TheOtherGirl, wrt the brown suede coat, it's like a classic 70s combo to do denim and a white tee or cream roll neck with it but personally I'd be stealing quirky's rediscovered red pashmina and wear it as a scarf, adding on a thin red belt if it doesn't already have a belt, and stealing MeThen's fedora hat. Although lately I''ve been 'feeling' orange, which would also be fab with brown but that's probably a bit out there.

It depends per person, but I always struggle a bit with collarless as it's so shapeless, it's fine in a blouse or shirt but in a coat it always looks a bit off unless you can wear it open like a deep V, but if you've got a nice long elegant neck you're ahead.

I briefly had leather blazer madness for a bit, surprisingly there's loads on Vestiaire for not crazy money. I really wanted a proper nineties one though, with thinner lapels and a straighter fit (I'm thinking Calvin Klein did these back then and Gwyneth Paltrow wore them in Sliding Doors but maybe I'm making that up) which was easier to find in the men's section but then sizing is a complete gamble as I do want it fitted on the shoulder but haven't really come across many in the flesh yet.

Sock, I saw some comparable Me + Em jeans added to the COS sale the other day. They were far too big for me (I don't know why I torture myself at COS, I know only about 4% of their stock could fit me and it's usually the stuff I don't like) but the shape was good and only slightly too long for me (mere cms, since you're 5cm taller than me I'd think they'd be ideal length). I took a picture will post later when on my phone, and provide link.

I do that too, Elle, the higher the hemline - the lower the heel and vice versa, although I quite like a flat under floor length with a bit of movement to it. I was actually planning on getting some Vejas (esploo or similar sounding name, the ones that look like Stan Smiths) whilst in Paris but then I came across the Isabel Marants. May still have a look, I do remember admiring them years ago when they had a colab with CdC, they were really still unknown cult shoes back then, they seem much more well known now. I think their only claim to ethics is really the supply chain and that they use sustainable rubber that doesn't harm the Amazon. Maybe the vegan versions are a new thing but I prefer the leather ones.

Would love to see a pic of the Raey skirt as I'd quite like it in burgundy but think it won't be short enough on me.

Flo, I tried on a pair of U jeans and unlike the Uniqlo jeans, they came in very small. May have had to do with the fact that they were 100% cotton which is always problematic with my shape but there was definitely a difference.

schmalex, I think with charity shops you have to pop in often and at unusual times. I found out there's a new one from a larger charity that presorts the 'better' stuff into one select store but the prices are still reasonable, I'm going to go have a look tomorrow. I also recently read in the Guardian that Oxfam do a similar thing but they sell it on their online website. Didn't know they even had an online webshop.

The velvet allure matte lipsticks from Chanel are great, they're my favourite. Though in all honesty, I haven't tried many.

Did some minor damage in H&M yesterday, some really delicate string bracelets which will work well in amongst others, and it was a 1+1 free offer so got a set of stacked rings for free with it. Also discovered some premade overknee tights, they were discounted but seem to be full price on the website. Hadn't noticed they were control tights, but at the very least they should stop me having to pull up my overknee socks all the time. I remember Wolford had a similar pair a few years ago but they were ludicrously expensive.

Methenyouplus4 · 19/01/2018 22:36

Evening.

Went into KiKo for the first time yesterday and was seriously impressed. I came away with a couple of lippies (1 nude 1 red), a lip liner, pot of eye liner and palette- for about £35! The staff were fantastic and I'm thrilled with the colours they picked. They applied products and gave me a mini-tutorial. Will defo go back.

Russell&Bromley shoes arrived and I really like them. I haven't had them on yet due to heavy snow but excited to play wit different looks with them.

Also now only brusing hair with a wide tooth comb (adding a bit of oil) after washing and it's really helped bring out my natural wave. I still blow dry my fringe though otherwise I find it seems to look flat/greasy.

I'm still enjoying playing with outfits and subtle 'up-grades'- I did the shirt sleeve roll today and felt much more polished. Now I feel like I need to focus on food choices/ hydration/skin etc to feel at my best.

On pintrest there seems to be a lot of beauty/ pharmacy products French girls can't live without...any truth to them? I feel a bit clueless when it comes to skincare.

Methenyouplus4 · 19/01/2018 22:39

Meant to add- KiKo lippies were: (nude) 01 Artic Holiday (think it was a holiday special) and (red) 115 Gossamer Emotion.

I'm cool colouring so nude is quite pinky/peach warm and maes lips look really full and red doesn't seem to make teeth look yellow. Have to add that I love the tubes, two different styles but both felt a lot more £££ than they were.

botemp · 19/01/2018 23:00

Yes, there's truth to the idea that some French pharmacy is fantastic at a really good price point, free of a lot of common irritants but there's also a tonne of crap so you really have to know what you're buying. Lots of all round skin saviours too and outside of Japan, I feel they make some of the best sunscreens both in terms of cosmetic elegance and broad spectrum protection.

Attached are the wide leg denim trousers from COS. I usually wear a 24" or 25" but these were 25" and easily two sizes too big, sat a tad lower than I expected, not quite low rise but a tad lower than mid rise. Picture is a bit distorted perspective due to cramped fitting room, legs looked longer and upper body is a tad shorter and I have a neck Confused Link here. Please ignore the weird nineties revival up top, I was only fitting that on for size as I want it in black.

Bonne année, Parisiennes de Mamansnet! C'est Le nouveau thread full of nouveau ideés!
EnidButton · 19/01/2018 23:23

No idea how to say this without sounding like a creepy fecker but you have really perfect lips bo. I'm envious!

Methenyouplus4 · 20/01/2018 07:55

The othergirl- sorry to hear about your mum. I know there was talk on an earlier thread of offering beauty related care to I'll relatives (rubbing on a favourite hand lotion etc). Perhaps you could do some small thing like that for your mum to perk up her spirits.

Bo- are Avenue/ LRP fairly good options? Are there particular 'hero' brands/products? Have to same I'm not overly keen on those trousers but possibly just odd top/angle as you said.

This morning it's cold but DH out and kids playing so tempted to look through wardrobe to find new ways to pair things. I feel frustrated that there doesn't seem to be an easy way to print your pintrest board as would love to have my style one stuck up inside my wardrobe doors for inspiration. If anyone knows how, please share as Google proving fairly fruitless unless I want to try screen shooting everything/putting images on document etc which would take forever.

botemp · 20/01/2018 08:25

Enid, you don't rank all that high on the creep-o-meter, well IME anyhow. I mean we are talking the lips up top, I hope Shock

Methen, they're clearly too big and I'd have to wear them with heels, but I included a pic as the COS website usually is difficult in their presentation.

I think with any skincare brand they all have some great products and some shit ones. There's no method to it as skin is so different. The only hero products I'd ever point out are ones that have several uses amd are reliable standbys like LRP Cicaplast or Homeoplastine. The Bioderma miccelar gets mentioned a lot but it's a makeup remover and people wrongly use it as a cleanser. If unsure, just go for the most intolerant skin ranges as they're the least likely to do harm.

If you're on Google chrome you can download a plug in for the tool bar called Pin Down Free, it'll save an entire board (up to 250 images) to a folder. Can be any board, doesn't have to be your own. On windows it's pretty easy to print an entire folder all at once but it does seem like an awful lot of waste.

quirkychick · 20/01/2018 08:39

Methen glad the shoes look good, I've been sorting through my pins on Pinterest and discovered I had already pinned one of those photos of Clemence Poesy in those shoes!

I have lost myself down a YouTube rabbithole of french natural makeup, I think I already favoured enhancing your natural skin as opposed to covering it up.

Proper I bought a grey cashmere wrap in the sale in John Lewis, I took something back and it only cost me £1. I haven't worn it yet, as it's been too cold here, proper warm coat weather only. Mine's kind of assymetrical with a diagonal rib pattern.

ProperLavs · 20/01/2018 09:18

Hi quirky, thanks for replying. I appreciate it.

How do you use a pinterest board?

quirkychick · 20/01/2018 09:39

I have far too many pins and Pinterest boards atm Blush. So, I am currently trying to edit them down on Pinterest, they have a new feature where you can put boards into sections, so I'm trying to amalgamate my style stuff onto one board with different sections and take off things I don't 100% like. I do put some things seasonally, so closer to spring, I will go through my spring ideas and delete anything I don't feel I like/or is current and add any new ideas too. If that makes sense.

ProperLavs · 20/01/2018 09:52

It sounds like something that could eat up huge amounts of time. Perhaps I should stay away. It's sounds brilliant and I am very easily distracted!

TheGrumpySquirrel · 20/01/2018 10:30

Going to sort out my wardrobe today, and maybe vacuum bag my skinny clothes 😭 I need more space and we are planning a big fitted wardrobe but it's going to take time. Marie Kondo folding has helped me realise what I own and what I wear (and don't wear!).

ProperLavs · 20/01/2018 10:50

I love MK folding and sorting. It’s so helpful and I can see all my clothes so easily now. I have always stored my clothes by colour. Good luck with the sorting grumpy!

Floisme · 20/01/2018 10:54

Speaking of easily distracted, I've got a big piece of work on at the moment but I can't concentrate cos I'm trying to remember the film/ tv prog where I saw the leather blazer. It might have been Cate Blanchett in Veronica Guerin but I can't see it in any pics. I'd love to know what's going on in my brain when a piece of clothing stops looking dated and begins to look cool and interesting again. Knee boots are another case in point. I've been wearing them occasionally with midi skirts again (the only way I can carry off that mid calf length) and they feel so elegant, not to mention warm. And I can wear bobbled tights underneath and nobody knows.

I also can't stop thinking about the raincoat Jo March (Maya Hawke) wore on the tv 'Little Women' over Christmas. It's supposed to be an old, shabby piece of crap but I'm guessing by the way it hangs (but doesn't fall) off her shoulders and billows out at the back that it's probably a very expensive, heavy fabric and a razor sharp cut. Again I can't find a pic, sorry. I've just about enough self awareness to know that a straight replica of that coat on me would be more 'Edna the Inebriate Woman' than Jo March but that's the effect I'm after: that kind of I-don't-give-a-shit glamour.

That's interesting about U jeans bo - the trousers have always come up massive so useful info, thanks. OCsock glad that link looks promising. The last thing I need are any more trousers but I'm also very taken with the curved wide legs so I may see you in the scrum. Those Cos wide legs in bo's pic would be too low rise for me cos I'm short and I want a higher waist to get the illusion of long legs. And yes I realise that must leave my torso looking oddly short but I'm too busy admiring my legs to care.

I'm not a Marie Kondo fan but, as a second hand shopper (not that you'd know that from recent posts) I'm sure I've often been a beneficiary Smile I find that, to get anything out of charity shops, you have to know your turf. It's partly about affluent neighbourhoods but it's also about working out which shops attract donors with your kind of style but a lot more money. And then calling in little and often. It's a lot of work unless you treat it as a hobby.

Right back to work.

Canters15 · 20/01/2018 11:37

Thank you for the shoe suggestions upthread.

I have a little challenge for you stylish lot. I have a new job, and of course my first thought was I NEED WORKWEAR I MUST SHOP. I haven't worked for 18 months, and before that was preg, so it's been a long time since I've bought anything. Add to that I've gone from a 14 to a 10, so I am largely starting from scratch. So, if you could buy a few quality basics to hinge a workwear wardrobe on (I won't use the capsule word!), what would you get? Work environment is fairly smart (but not suits, probably a level below what women would wear in City jobs, definitely not casual) and climate similar to UK (not Singapore!).

Asitgoes · 20/01/2018 11:38

Mme Moss working some layered fine bracelets with leather cuff in today's Guardian

Kate Moss: ‘I still get excited – I’m still shocked when I get a campaign’

www.theguardian.com/fashion/2018/jan/20/kate-moss-campaign-david-bailey-charity-shop-photography?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Copy_to_clipboard

Methenyouplus4 · 20/01/2018 12:24

Proper- pintrest is like a fancy cross between instagram/Google images. You search something (could be chicken pie/ animal themed party/ particular celeb -anything really) and you get loads of images linked to your search which you can pin to a virtual pinboard and give each one a category e.g. midweek suppers/ autumn style etc. It's intuative, so when you log on it presents you with lots of images it thinks you might like baseductive on your searches/other boards. So for example, my eldest DS's would show all trainers/cars etc, while mine is home interiours/food/kids crafts etc. You can also just look at what is 'trending'. Many images take you to the original source the image was taken from so you can read original article/blog etc. It can be a bit of a time suck but I do find it really useful.

Bo-didn't mean to sound harsh about jeans- you just look (as you said) rather swamped in them. I'm also thinking about my shape and they wouldn't suit me at all.

Re: printing pins-thank you for tips! I was hoping there is a way of maybe putting 9 images on one sheet of A4, so I possibly have 2 sheets stuck on the inside of each door. I don't think it would be every pin, more a visual reminder of things I'm trying to in corporate more e.g. belted cardigans, sleeve roll, casual shoes with 'dressy' looks etc.

Didn't get to wardrobe sort sadly as kids wanted my full attention but might get a chance this evening.

I like some elements of MK- for me it was interesting to think about not keeping bobbly/holed etc items for spare clothes to 'wear in the house'. I now have one scruffy set for decorating/weeding etc and that's about it.

ProperLavs · 20/01/2018 12:45

Thanks methen I might have dabble then

MK has enabled me to be able to get rid of things that I don't feel good in and that was extremely liberating.

Today for example my GAP package arrived, 2 items 2 big, one just right and a fourth I liked, they were fine, they fitted, looked nice but they didn't make me think 'wow, that makes me happy', so they are going back. That is my rule for every new item of clothing I buy and for everything already in the house ( gardening attire excluded).

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