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Where to get nice looking clothes when your skint?

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Coverup890 · 23/12/2017 08:25

I am useless at shopping and knowing what to buy. I am working on it but have very little self esteem so tend to live in trousers/smart jeans and a random selection of very similar looking jumpers for work they are quite relaxed in my office on clothing as long as it's not scruffy they don't mind as we only have clients come in maybe 2 times a year at most.

Anyway back to my question I have very little money these days as I am now a single mum of three trying to pay off the depts their dad left and having very little money after all the school bills ect. I'm a pear shape, 5ft 4 and over weight and find most of the cheaper shops at the moment only sell short tops which look awful on me I'm always pulling down my current jumpers as I'm so self conscious about my stomach so don't want anything shorter. I'm not a brave dresser as you can probably guess so was wondering if anyone knew where I coulď get some nice tops for work for no more than £25 max? I know that's not much these days but I really don't have more.

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Floisme · 23/12/2017 10:24

I second / third Uniqlo because I think overall, they offer the best balance of price and reasonably consistent quality. Plus they sell pretty much everything.

I'm a big second hand buyer but I'm not sure I'd recommend it in your case because all that rummaging / traveling to affluent neighbourhoods / watching Ebay is time consuming. It worked for me when I was skint myself but at that time I had no children. It works again now because my son is grown and we have no caring responsibilities. But if you're a single parent with 3 young children I imagine your spare time is as precious as your money. I also don't think it's a great way to find basics because people tend to wear them out.

Coverup890 · 23/12/2017 21:33

Thank you everyone the oatmeal balloon slave top. As for the debts it was from him not paying utility bills when he said he had.

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bingohandjob · 23/12/2017 23:45

Sales, eBay, charity shops - but try stuff on in shops to get idea of your sizing in different brands and find what suits you so you can be selective. Good basics in Uniqlo, tenner off first order (over they're p quid,I think) and very good sale prices.

BackforGood · 23/12/2017 23:51

Another to recommend Charity shops.

MaudesMum · 24/12/2017 08:51

I've been trying to build up a new wardrobe while skint, and it can be done. TK Maxx has been brilliant, although intermittent - they're having a lot of very good quality Jaeger long-sleeved t-shirts at the moment, which are very long in the body. And Sainsburys clothing with its occasional 25% off sales making it even more reasonable. And Uniqlo, once you've got your eye in about their sizing - if there's any way you can get to a branch so you can work out what size you are.

giddyupnow · 27/12/2017 12:03

i think the best thing i have learned over a couple of years of being super skint just when i needed new clothes (post babies, back to corporate) is divide and rule. Primark and uniqlo sales and maybe tesco/asda sainsburys to get: skinny highwaisted jeans, stretchy jersey tops, plain skirts (uniqlo skirts amazing) underwear if possible (depends on boobs, but I think primark bras quite underrated!) Primark do plain long sleeved scoop neck jersey tops, plain long 'dress' vests (obv a dress if you are a skinny 16 yr old: a top on me!) and ordinary length vests. very useful to have all of these in navy, black, grey and whatever else you like. In fact you can do capsule wardrobe in very basic colours: black, grey, dark blue jeans. navy/black/grey cardigans. THEN I add in cheap fashion, so any of my jeans might go with a little lace-edged vest from asos like this: plain black lace top but I got it on offer.

I really unashamedly know what I like now, like little cream tops with the jeans and the dark cardi. I'm sure if you look at me you'd think 'god she has very pared down, simple taste' but it's really just to make it all mix and match and go further and be cheaper! Esp for an office.

Then shoes: if you look around there is normally something in style that is cheaper, like you might not be able to get expensive trainers for every day, but superga or similar plain lace up gutties very cheap (also primark etc will do them). Plain black pointy shoes or whatever you like for evening or work. I think Asos amazing for cheap stylish shoes.

Then trying to add fashion: once I have this very plain, pared down (boring but perfectly stylish) look down, I add cheap tops on sale that are a bit more on trend, or a little bag or something, but again I sort of now know what things go together.

Not to derail the french chic thread onto this one, but I quite often look at things and think 'would my chic (imaginary) Parisian friend buy these?' inspired by living in France where in my experience they seemed to be both thrifty and happy to consider a purchase in the shop for a long time to check they liked it and it worked for them. Thus getting away from the panicked supermarket sweep effect.

Fluffycloudland77 · 27/12/2017 14:44

I do the paired down thing & Dh tells me I'm overdressed Hmm eg Henri Lloyd jersey blazer in navy, White boden easy vest, bright pink jeggings from sainsburys, gold sandals.

Whole outfit was £60ish. I paid for the jeggings in nectar points from surveys.

Dancinggoat · 27/12/2017 15:16

Next clearance sale online. Wait for the sale stuff to be returned and it gets really reduced again.
ASOS is good as well.
H and M online have good offers too.

Mamia15 · 27/12/2017 15:25

H&M - you need to look carefully for the decent stuff.

Hoppinggreen · 27/12/2017 16:18

Sainsbos

Lokisglowstickofdestiny · 27/12/2017 16:19

I was pleasantly surprised by some of the clothes in Sainsburys, very reasonable prices and a good mix of casual and work wear.

leccybill · 29/12/2017 10:53

I've just bought this top for work from Dorothy Perkins for just £7 if it helps anyone. Plenty of sizes in stock, free to click and collect. I think it will look smart with black trousers.

Where to get nice looking clothes when your skint?
ChickaaaaannDipppaaaaassss · 29/12/2017 10:58

everything5pounds.com
Brilliant :)

OneOfTheGrundys · 29/12/2017 12:48

Yes re everything5pounds.
If you can find a bunch of people to order with you save delivery too. We used to do it at work.

CointreauVersial · 29/12/2017 13:00

Charity shops are particularly good for work clothes - pencil skirts, tailored trousers and shirts don't date much, and still look good second hand.

The ones in the town near me yield all sorts of excellent quality brands - Jaeger, Boden etc - which will often look better after a few wears than a brand new item from a cheaper brand.

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