My hair is really fine (well, thin really) and a lot of grey. I have been under the care of a dermatologist and using minoxidil for 2 years, which has helped to some extent. My hair is naturally medium brown, straight and has a lot of grey. I've been using semi-permanent colour for the past 2 years, to minimise damage, but I hate the way every shade of brown dye seems to turn gingery. I need help with colour (possibly to go lighter or even move towards embracing the grey), and also a good cut/style (low-maintenance) to help it look thicker. I haven't been to a hairdresser for over 2 years because I'm too embarrassed about my thin, grey hair, but I can't carry on like this. It's just long and lank now, and I'm sure I could look better and feel more confident if I had a good local hairdresser I could trust. I don't have much spare cash, but if it makes a difference to my confidence I would be prepared to spend.
I'm not really interested in any kind of extensions or hair pieces, as I don't think I could cope with the maintenance (I'm a low-maintenance, wash and go type).
Also, are any professional conditioning treatments worth it?
I'd really appreciate any advice.