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Is this too short for a funeral?

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Bubblysqueak · 04/10/2017 16:26

m.asos.com/mt/www.asos.com/asos/asos-high-neck-skater-dress-with-lace-inserts/prd/7865196?clr=black&SearchQuery=Black+dress&pgesize=50&pge=3&totalstyles=3150&gridsize=2&gridrow=8&gridcolumn=2
I have a funeral to attend and can't decide what to wear. I do have a black trouser and black and white high neck top that i have previously worn to a funeral but not sure if I would prefer to wear a dress.
Is this dress too short?
Any suggestions for a suitable black dress that is not too expensive.

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Bubblysqueak · 04/10/2017 17:57

Thinking about ordering this one too.

Is this too short for a funeral?
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BossyBitch · 04/10/2017 17:58

It's at the cleaners at present, but I'll try and retrieve the brand and model if you want. Bought it online, so should have it in an email ...

MrsPear · 04/10/2017 18:02

Sorry for your loss.
English funeral simple - wear black unless clear direct message from organiser. Don't wear trousers unless you know it to be a modern affair. Dress knee length minimum, have covered shoulders, no lace, not low cut and quite plain. I have a fit and flare from lands end of all places. At grand parents funerals - yes I have put it to one side as my funeral outfit - I have received compliments from their contemporaries.

NotTheFordType · 04/10/2017 18:05

my go to funeral attire is black trousers and some kind of plain top, probably a blouse, but nothing that could in any way be construed as looking for attention.

NotTheFordType · 04/10/2017 18:06

I wore black trousers to my husband's funeral, without wishing to, i don't even know what the word is, humblegrieve?

RavenLG · 04/10/2017 18:07

I think it all depends on the family to be honest. My friends funeral required an obnoxious yellow piece of clothing as was his favourite colour. My partners gran passed earlier this year, and although it was a more formal affair, 2 of her daughters were in florals / purple as was her favourite colour. I wore a black 50s style dress with mesh / lace sleeves, attention grabbing to some, fitting imo. Personally, I think it would be fine with a blazer / cardigan and black tights.

Bubblysqueak · 04/10/2017 18:08

Think dress and coat are now sorted. I'm leaning towards the marisotta dress (the last picture) or the next dress which ever I feel more comfortable in. I've also remembered a smart black coat I bought for an interview which finally fits me again.

Next challenge shoes and tights! I. Going for comfort so expect to wear my wedges.

So you think a dark plum coloured tights is acceptable (to break up the black) or should I just stick to black?

Sorry for all of the questions my head is a little all over the place at the moment and I'm finding it difficult to make a confident decision!

Thanks for all of your help!

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Abijam · 04/10/2017 18:14

I really like the one posted on Wed 04-Oct-17 16:49:02. Its really elegant and decent looking. Perfect for a funeral. I'd love to have one of it to my self as well.

Bubblysqueak · 04/10/2017 18:18

I've ordered that one Abijam its at the top of the list hopefully it looks as good on. If not I've also ordered the last dress pictured.

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Bombardier25966 · 04/10/2017 19:00

Dark plum tights are fine. How high are the wedges? You want to be comfortable, make sure you can walk in them!

Bubblysqueak · 04/10/2017 19:29

Not too high, have worn them to funerals I the past and they were fine.

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Bubblysqueak · 05/10/2017 11:08

This one has just arrived and I think it's perfect. It's a really thick material so is nice and warm and it fits really well. Thanks for all of your help .

Is this too short for a funeral?
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MyLittleDragon · 05/10/2017 11:20

To me, it's a party dress and not funeral attire. It's tight, sleeveless and with a lace see-through section. Just not funeral. Imho. The length is the least of concerns.

MyLittleDragon · 05/10/2017 11:21

Ah, rtwt! Smile

Plum tights are absolutely fine though.

neveradullmoment99 · 05/10/2017 11:34

The next dress is perfect.

neveradullmoment99 · 05/10/2017 11:35

The wrap dress is lovely. Simple black shoes mid heel would be perfect.

BeatriceBeaudelaire · 05/10/2017 12:28

It’s a fashion statement not a bereavement outfit.

BeatriceBeaudelaire · 05/10/2017 12:29

The second one was fine though I think as the arms are covered , still a bit fashionable though

BeatriceBeaudelaire · 05/10/2017 12:31

@Bubblysqueak the sun is shining in London right now! 15c too

Zoesweet · 05/10/2017 12:32

I think it's a cocktail/evening dress. More appropriate would be cuts below the knee. The second dress is more appropriate.

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