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Is this dress okay for a wedding?

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CantWinThemAll · 21/08/2017 14:48

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Is this dress okay for a wedding?
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PigletWasPoohsFriend · 21/08/2017 15:16

Ok think it varies from church to church tbh. I have been in some that don't mind and others that do.

HandmaidsFail · 21/08/2017 15:18

Gorgeous, fine for a wedding I think. It depends on the church and the people getting married whether or not you cover your shoulders. I don't really like wraps as, like you say, they're a bit of a faff! However churches are chilly! You might want to take something, perhaps a smart light coat? I usually have a jacket on for the ceremony if the temperature is cool.

CantWinThemAll · 21/08/2017 15:18

I end up looking awkward wearing things like a wrap because I just don't know how to wear it/hold it. Juggling that and holding a baby doesn't fill me with confidence. I think I'll just risk it. I doubt anyone will have a go at me for it.

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Dina1234 · 21/08/2017 15:22

It depends on the type of wedding of course but for the run of the mill British wedding it looks perfect.

LillyLoves · 21/08/2017 15:23

I hate wraps too... why wear a nice, well-fitting dress and then cover it up with a shapeless piece of material?
Glad to hear you're going for it OP, you won't be the only one showing your shoulders I'm sure.

Vebrithien · 21/08/2017 15:24

Lovely dress, but yes, shoulders really should be covered in a Catholic church.

Theimpossiblegirl · 21/08/2017 15:24

If you are travelling back in time for this wedding you will have to have your shoulders covered and wear a hat. If not, the dress is perfect as it is.

KimLek · 21/08/2017 15:27

Again, I always have chilly shoulders so would have a wrap or a little jacket BUT I don't think you necessarily need to. If a wrap is going to annoy you then don't bother. The whole look is lovely - your hair idea is fab! Enjoy!!

squoosh · 21/08/2017 15:30

You don't need to cover your shoulders in a Catholic church. Most Catholic brides in the past decade have worn strapless dresses themselves.

OrlandaFuriosa · 21/08/2017 16:37

You only need to cover your shoulders where they specifically ask you to. Many orthodox churches in eg Greece, I think St Peter's Rome.

Don't worry about it. If you'll be warm enough with shoulders uncovered, then fine.

Def no fascinator - not with that glorious hair - though you could put a flower or something in the knot. I wouldn't, more expense, faff, it's lovely as it is.

Have a great time.

CantWinThemAll · 21/08/2017 16:53

Great... bare shoulders it is! And no fascinator, is that the general consensus?

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squoosh · 21/08/2017 16:55

Yep, I say no to the fascinator too.

Glitterfish · 21/08/2017 17:07

Beautiful dress and wouldn't worry about shoulders but i was always told not to wear black dresses to a wedding

squoosh · 21/08/2017 17:10

It's blue as far as I can tell.

CantWinThemAll · 21/08/2017 17:21

It's navy. Much lighter than the picture appears :)

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Avesy · 21/08/2017 21:39

The dress is stunning, just a wrap or a pashmina type scarf for the church andto stay warm on the way home. I often agonise over wearing a jacket over a dress and what will match etc but just a wrap is all that is required.

SnowWhite33 · 22/08/2017 13:28

Beautiful dress. Regarding covering your shoulders, it depends on the wedding. Normally I would say no need, however I have attended 2 weddings in Italy and it is a norm there to cover your shoulders in church.

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