We've been invited to a wedding (or at least, we've been told we're going to be - it's a few months away) and I'm already stressing about what to wear. To explain: as well as being a bit overweight (14-16) I can't wear dresses, skirts or high heels due to a medical condition that makes my legs and feet swell, so I live in wide legged trousers, brogues and boys' trainers.
I'm lucky that wide-leg trousers are back at the moment - the fashion for skinnies has been a nightmare - but the ones I've seen so far have mainly been nasty polyester suiting material and I think maybe that along with colours available (black, navy) have made them look more like workwear than wedding guest. A few years ago I wore cream linen wide-legs with cream brogues and a silk top to a summer wedding so I think I'm looking for a winter equivalent, although I think this wedding is more formal than that was. Maybe even a trouser suit, again as long as it doesn't look like I'm going to a meeting rather than a wedding. Not sure what exactly I'm after other than that but think I'll know it when I see it, iykwim, and would very much appreciate suggestions of where to start looking as I don't shop often and stick with the same casual clothing shops in the main.
Budget wise, probably up to £80-90 for the trousers, more for a suit of course, up to £80 for the shoes too unless I could wear them a lot afterwards. Not averse to secondhand or online only, as long as it can be returned and refunded if it doesn't work when I try it on. Thank you!