Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Dark grey to a funeral?

17 replies

TobleroneBoo · 01/12/2016 15:03

Is this acceptable do you think?
I was going to wear this dress with thick black tights.
Dress

Or should I just stick with black?

OP posts:
LemonBreeland · 01/12/2016 15:07

Yes I would say that was appropriate. It can look perfectly sombre with black tights and jacket.

DoinItFine · 01/12/2016 15:09

Colour is fine.

On the model it's a bit short for a funeral imo.

Whence · 01/12/2016 15:10

Any dark colour would be fine (unless told to wear bright colours). I agree it looks a little short on the model but would probably be OK with thick tights depending on your height.

TobleroneBoo · 01/12/2016 17:26

I am very short so should be ok on me, just wasn't sure if grey would look like I was trying to stand out from the black, which I'm not.

Thanks for your responses Flowers

OP posts:
AmeliaJack · 01/12/2016 17:29

The last few funerals I've been to had a mixture of black, grey and navy.

That dress looks fine (with the PP's caveat about length)

DoinItFine · 01/12/2016 17:29

Sorry for your loss Flowers

TheCakes · 01/12/2016 17:31

Yes, it's fine if long enough on you.
Sorry for your loss.

TobleroneBoo · 01/12/2016 17:39

Thank you, a dress seems irrelevant in comparison, I just don't want to get it wrong

OP posts:
AmeliaJack · 01/12/2016 17:49

It's not irrelevant at all Toblerone. How you are dressed can impact how you feel.

It's also a small way of showing respect to the person that has died and their family.

Flowers
sycamore54321 · 01/12/2016 17:52

Looks fine to me unless - you might only want to reconsider if you are very immediate family/chief mourner. Otherwise grey is fine. For funerals though, I usually keep my coat on for the religious sevice indoors also, so make sure you have a suitably formal dark (not necessarily black) outer layer to wear.

The most important thing though is you are there to grieve and offer comfort to the bereaved.

TobleroneBoo · 01/12/2016 17:58

Oh, I am immediate family but I do have a black coat which would totally cover the dress and I imagine it will be freezing anyway and probably wouldn't even take the coat off until the wake, so that could be ok?

OP posts:
polyhymnia · 01/12/2016 18:01

Absolutely fine as long as it's not as short as on the model.

DoinItFine · 01/12/2016 18:02

If you're immediate family you can wear whatever you like.

OverTheGardenGate · 01/12/2016 18:06

I think it looks perfectly appropriate.
Sorry for your loss.

Karcheer · 01/12/2016 18:16

I wore dark green and brown to my neighbours funeral, I think as long as it's respectful and not bright (unless specified), it's ok. Sorry for your loss.

lesleylogan89 · 01/12/2016 18:30

Yeh nothing wrong with it at all.

burnishedsilver · 01/12/2016 19:31

It's fine for a funeral except that you might be cold with the short sleeves. Perhaps a cardigan or jacket would be worth bringing.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread