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Should Your Partner Buy You A Dress?

37 replies

Mantis1975 · 21/10/2016 20:46

What's the opinion on male partners buying their other half clothes, in particular dresses.
My wife had a huge debate with herself every time she goes to buy a dress but I've seen women saying they'd love their partner to buy them one ala so many movies.

This seems a recipe for disappointment but I was wondering your thoughts.

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ChishandFips33 · 22/10/2016 08:37

Oh and on the show even underwear isn't safe! You can just imagine the men's choices!

neveradullmoment99 · 22/10/2016 09:52

No I personally wouldnt like him choosing me anything because he would choose something that he likes to see me in rather than something that I would like. Chances are, I would hate it and he would hate doing it. I choose something, he pays.

Mantis1975 · 22/10/2016 12:03

ChishandFips33
That show sounds amazing. Surely people can see what there's DP wears and realise, "Oh, she likes this sort of thing so I'll get her something similar."
I can understand the sexy undies or things for a night out, or more importantly a night in, but "sexy" wear for everyday use?!?

I like to think I have a fairly good idea of what my wife would like in a dress but, having admittedly come close a couple of times, I'd not actually get her one with out her approval of it first.

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neveradullmoment99 · 22/10/2016 12:56

My dh would be the opposite of buying sexy things. He would buy me frump wear.

Strawberryfield12 · 22/10/2016 15:48

DH hadnt bought be a dress, but all the other clothing he has ever bought, I really liked. Some of the things he bought I wouldnt have thought looking at, but were great on me.

RebelandaStunner · 22/10/2016 18:14

My DH would have a clue, but seeing as I have to try a dress on and if it wasn't right would need to return it what would be the point?
I would rather he stick to perfume and vouchers tbh.

StripyHorse · 25/10/2016 22:47

DH has often bought me clothes, usually birthdays and Christmas bit occasionally 'just because ' . My only criticism would be that he has an 'if it ain't broke don't fix it' approach.... I have 3 dresses in exactly the same style ( very different patterns though).

What he is good at is paying attention when I show him things I like.

OneNightTimeMenaceStrikesBack · 26/10/2016 00:43

If Dp wants to get me clothes, I choose, he pays. He's bought me some things like pjs, onesies and a couple of cardigans but i think that womens sizes confuse him a bit so generally i will pick or i will send him a few choices with the sizes i would wear in them for him to pick from, so i sort of get asurprise

IJustLostTheGame · 26/10/2016 09:11

If DH wants to treat me we go to the shop and I choose.

If he was sent out on his own I would be in a cold sweat, he doesnt have a clue. He would ring his mother and then I'd end up looking like an old frump.

I choose most of his clothes for him. Like I said, he just doesn't have a clue.

mrsmortis · 26/10/2016 09:17

My Dad has occasionally slipped back into a clothes shop and bought a dress that mum tried on, loved, but then decided was too expensive. Does that count? DH avoids shopping at all costs and wouldn't have a clue.

ladyformation · 26/10/2016 11:06

I've had a few partners buy me dresses and I've always loved them. I'm a pretty easy size/shape and I like a wide variety of things though, so probably not the trickiest to buy for...

mrsmortis that's my ideal scenario Grin

OCSockOrphanage · 26/10/2016 13:19

DH is a brave chap and has tried to buy clothes. (He took the safe approach of going to my favourite shop and asking for help). After spending way too much, he bought a jumper that didn't fit! I took it back and exchanged it for several things I love, from the sale preview, so no harm done, but I think it will be a one-off.

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