Am going on holiday with some old friends, all in our 40's - we see each other maybe a few times a year. Have been packing and it seems like I'm taking a lot of black, and navy ie black vests, black dresses (casual mostly), black and white skirts to wear with black tops. Is this too much black? My shoes are white trainers, silver sandals etc. I can't wear lots of pattern and I don't wear a lot of white. Am hoping Ill be pulling off a sophisticated laid back cosmopolitan style but am wondering if I'm going to end up looking like I'm going to a funeral when compared to the other ladies!