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Can I accessorise this dress for a funeral?

16 replies

ItsAll · 23/07/2015 07:28

Navy dress

I thought it would be fine, but now I'm not so sure. Anyway, I was wondering about a black blazer, black flats, and a dark grey cross body bag. I think I've got this so wrong though Confused.

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Gem124 · 23/07/2015 09:33

I really don't think that's appropriate for a funeral, sorry. It is a beautiful dress though.

RepeatAdNauseum · 23/07/2015 09:35

It's a bit Summery, I think. It looks very casual for a funeral.

You might get away with it depending on your relationship to the deceased and their family, but if you are anything but a loose acquaintance, and you could inadvertently offend them. Or just feel really out of place all day, which might be worse!

ItsAll · 23/07/2015 09:42

Oh no, thanks both.

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 09:44

I can't see anything wrong with it. I know at my dad's funeral I wouldn't have cared if people came in their pyjamas. The important thing is you're going Smile

Bunbaker · 23/07/2015 09:46

I wouldn't judge you for what you were wearing. I would just be pleased that you bothered to turn up to support the deceased. But that is just my opinion.

answersonapostcardplease · 23/07/2015 09:50

I think its fine without the scarf. Pair of smart shoes, jacket.

answersonapostcardplease · 23/07/2015 09:53

I was supposed to go to a funeral before xmas but due to train strikes couldn't make it. I couldn't afford a new outfit so was going to wear a ltb that normally wear at night with flat shoes.

tabulahrasa · 23/07/2015 09:58

On the model with the scarf it looks way too casual... By itself it doesn't.

So I think it might depend how it looks on you tbh.

SanityClause · 23/07/2015 10:07

It's fine, but I would wear opaques, if it's a bit short on you.

Unless otherwise specified, it's usual to wear sober coloured and modest clothing to a funeral. There's no need to wear all black, and in fact, I've seen lots of women wear really inappropriate dresses to funerals, because they were black (the dresses, not the women).

MehsMum · 23/07/2015 10:14

I think it depends on the funeral. I went to a v posh upper middle class one last year and expected it to involve well-cut jackets and gleaming footwear. I dressed accordingly and fitted right in. Most funerals round here, though, just involve looking as if you have made a bit of an effort to wear sober clothes, brush your hair, and clean your shoes. That blue dress would look fine at a funeral like that.

museumum · 23/07/2015 10:17

I think it's fine with a jacket and sensible height shoes. If it's more than a couple of cm above your knees and the weather is less than 20deg I'd wear opaqueness too.

Bubblesinthesummer · 23/07/2015 10:19

I think with a blazer, smart shoes and tights it would be fine.

ItsAll · 23/07/2015 12:15

I think that the dress does look smart in the second picture - I think it can just be dressed up or down.

I'm going to try it on with everything else, then decide.

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Flingmoo · 23/07/2015 12:19

It only looks casual because of the scarf and the model's general appearance! It's fine for a funeral. I'd wear black tights and smart, dark jacket/cardi with it.

Getuhda348 · 23/07/2015 16:09

I think it would be fine with a black blazer and black tights.

Postchildrenpregranny · 23/07/2015 18:43

Maybe not if you are close family ,but with opaque tights and a jacket it will be fine .I wore a purple jacket with black trousers to a neighbours funeral in Feb as my 'best' winter cost is teal coloured and I thought it was bit bright .Too cold to go coatless .Said neighbour wouldn't have given a toss as long as I looked 'smart' ( we shared a love of clothes) but I didn't want to offend anyone

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