I'm 46 and have thick (as in lots of it, and each strand is thick and wiry), slightly wavy hair. I don't need to dye it but it's really aging if I leave it. At the moment I don't have a regular hairdresser but each time I get it coloured (permanent dye) it starts off ok but after about 4 weeks fades and gets a rusty looking tinge and looks obviously dyed. I'm perimenopausal and my hair and skin is getting drier and drier so my hair is also quite frizzy and the opposite of sleek which makes it look and feel even worse.
A couple of years ago I had a really good hairdresser (who moved, curse her!) and my hair didn't seem to react in the same way. From memory she also seemed to have more sample colour charts so maybe I need to go to a more expensive salon who have different products???
Any advice would be very welcome. I don't feel ready to embrace the grey quite yet but am sure my hair can look better than it is.