We've been invited to a wedding in August. dd2 will be 4 mo; dd1 2yo. Only DH is invited to the ceremony at 5, I'm taking the girls for early dinner at a restaurant near the town hall and then the reception is at a country pub. I'm bf'ing and will need to be able to chase the toddler. So I need flat shoes, boob access and something that I'm not going to end up flashing in if I have to leap up! And, oh god, decent underwear but where does decent breastfeeding underwear come from? I'm a smart / casual person and in a former child free life would have bought a dress from whistles, heels and have had hair and nails done for a wedding. I'm only 4 weeks post partum so can't imagine what my bodyshape will be like in August (slimmer I hope!) but most bfing dresses seem to be maternity dresses and I'm already back into normal jeans albeit a bigger size than I would usually be. I also have zero confidence in my appearance at the moment so I'm finding all of this daunting. Any help would be appreciated!