Wearing high heels-not used to it. Does it get easier?

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I always wear flats these days and havent worn high heels for years. Ive just bought some for a special occasions and Im hobbling around on them at the moment. My ankles ache already.
Is it just a case of getting used to them or should I give up? They fit ok

How high are they? I'd go for a smaller heel (but not kitten heel) if you're not used to it, or a wedge if it'd suit your outfit.

They aren't very high - 3 1/2 inches and also have a small platform. Ive tried wedges before and found them uncomfortable - but maybe Ill give them another try. Meanwhile I've already bought these shoes so Im going to have to persevere

There are a few videos on YouTube that teach you how to walk in heels.

Thanks burnished I'll have a look.

I'm sure the Chinese ladies got used to footbinding eventually - after they had knackered up their hips, backs and feet.

you have a choice. Doesn't mean you need to go round in dead flat shoes (which you shouldn't anyway). But silly high heels look ridiculous and make you walk like a constipated duck.

3.5 inches is VERY high!! Ignore the dumb websites which tell you that is 'medium'. Is it hell.

Specialsubject is it really?

I think 3.5 is high, it's a big change for your feet to get used to.

If you're determined though you'll just have to grit you're teeth and bear it.

the rules have changed - it is now very difficult to buy smart shoes with walkable heels. Some fashion type has indeed decided that your kind of heel isn't high - but of course it is. Compare with your feet.

as an example, this nightmare is listed on the 'New Look' site as 'flat heel'.

www.newlook.com/shop/new-in/footwear/wide-fit-silver-ankle-strap-block-heels-_344970092?productFind=search

couple that with my size 42 feet and I can't buy shoes for 'office' wear. Just as well I don't need them because I think the two pairs I own will have to last for the rest of my life!

What? 3.5 inches is huge!!

Well no wonder I'm having trouble then! However I'll re-measure the heel as they don't look very high to me.

I think it all depends on the shoe. I tried on an M&S mule which had 8cm heel...so comfortable, then tried on many lower heeled sandals which were awful. The mule had a solid heel and soft leather front....and was £50. I think if you want high heels to be comfortable you have to pay.

I don't mind buying taxi shoes but appreciate that I will never walk far in them.

I'm currently looking for a pair of Riekers.

/mine are Clarks and are very comfortable to walk in all day long, according to user comments.

I do 3.5 inch heels most days. It's a standard work heel for me. Maybe I'm looking at a different shoe but New Look heels were listed as 'block heels' when I looked at the link, not 'flat'. They're a lovely daytime heel.

I love heels - just try and relax your hips and you'll find them easier.

Well I'm wearing the shoes for a short time each day and they are gradually getting easier to walk in. I'm no longer waddling like a duck and can go up and down stairs. My ankles don't hurt so much so maybe they'll do.

Well done! I can't go over 1 1/2 inches and don't even try anymore.