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Heels off under desk / around office

120 replies

lizzyh9 · 30/03/2015 16:03

Simple question - is this acceptable?

Boyfriend say should keep them on at all times!!

OP posts:
ElizabethHoover · 31/03/2015 00:27

You can be an Ah and wear flats

thiskiwicanfly · 31/03/2015 00:35

Nope, nope, nope. Can't do it myself.

My staff on the other hand... I have lost count of the number of times I've had to ask them to put their shoes back on. We work in a medical centre FFS! And this is nurses and receptionists. I have had to get over the jandal type shoes on receptionists but personally it'd be a no for me.

I did once work somewhere that was always freeeeeeezing cold in the winter. I used to have a blanket on my knees and a hot water bottle under my desk which I would rest my stockinged feet on - but never walked around.

Kleptronic · 31/03/2015 00:36

There's a woman in my office does this, and I want to stamp on her toes. I realise this is not a good thing.

VenusRising · 31/03/2015 00:43

Get a pair of flats to change into!

Wear your heels if you must then under your desk, change to your indoor flats.

Snowberry86 · 31/03/2015 07:50

I can't power dress in flats!

WhoKnowsWhereTheChocolateGoes · 31/03/2015 08:06

What on earth is the point of wearing shoes to work that you can't keep on because of discomfort? I can see the point of slipping them off under your desk for a few minutes if it's hot, but walking around barefoot because they are uncomfortable isn't really power dressing.

Pumpkinette · 31/03/2015 08:09

snowberry - you can't power dress in bare feet / stockings / no shoes either. Any shoes are better than no shoes.

WhoKnowsWhereTheChocolateGoes · 31/03/2015 08:19

It's not sending a great message to your students IMO Snowberry. It reinforces the perception that for a woman appearance is more important than function.

treewithtriplets · 31/03/2015 08:31

Heels off under desk totally fine - as far as I'm concerned the under desk area is your personal territory so let it all hang out. Well, all bar the foof. Probably.

Heels off walking around office - fine if wearing tights, less fine if barefoot. Tights are big socks and I walk around the office in socks loads - adds a frisson of interest to the day. Barefoot is just a bit gross for all concerned I think.

I always felt a bit like I was being saucy when I had shoes off at work, like ppl around me would consider me a liberated shoeless being. As you can tell, didn't take a lot for me to find a frisson of interest at work. Don't even get me started on the first day without tights in summer.

hiccupgirl · 31/03/2015 08:34

I take my shoes off when I'm in my office (which isn't often) as it's heated to volcano temperature and I hate having hot feet. I also walk around in my socks with the exception of going to the kitchen or the toilets. My feet don't smell and I don't do it barefoot. I really don't see the problem and wouldn't have a problem with anyone else doing it.

Any men judging should try wearing heels and see how long before they take them off under their desk.

Discounted · 31/03/2015 08:34

How does having shoes you can't work (or walk or run or do anything useful in) in equate to power? Confused

Discounted · 31/03/2015 08:38

Hiccugirl, the men wouldn't be daft enough to wear the heels in the first place...

isthatmorelego · 31/03/2015 08:40

Just to clear up walked around I was only person behind till counters wouldn't do it otherwise . I do have a physical disability so sometimes any shoes kill me .

Skeppers · 31/03/2015 08:41

This thread is making me so glad that I work in an office that doesn't have a dress code! Grin

ElizabethHoover · 31/03/2015 08:47

If you need to power dress to full your role as s teacher you're doing it wrong.

rosy71 · 31/03/2015 08:57

Just wear flat shoes. What's the point in wearing heels if you have to take them off all day?

Snowberry86 · 31/03/2015 10:38

I don't need to power dress in my role as a teacher, I need to power dress in my role as assistant head. I am 28 but look about 20 max without good make up and being dressed up.

My heels are comfy enough to wear all day, but because I am tall anyway (5ft7) I find it difficult to be nimble enough to nip round the desks in a classroom (my classroom is tiny and often filled with 32 students!). I only take them off in my classroom, never if I am not teaching.

Teaching is only a small part of my job (10 hours a week) out of of the 50 hours a week I spend in school. So I dress for the other side and then adapt for a classroom by taking off my shoes and jacket and rolling my sleeves up if needed.

I don't think it sends any messages to the children at all. None of them have ever questionned it, it is just what I do!

As for the man/woman thing- a man looks smart in a suit, with flat practical shoes. I would expect them to want to remove their jacket when teaching but to wear it at all other times. For me, only my opinion, a woman looks smartest in the workplace in a skirt/dress suit which looks best with heels!

funnyossity · 31/03/2015 10:45

It is not acceptable imho to teach barefoot unless going for the hippy vibe! Grin

QueenBean · 31/03/2015 10:48

So unprofessional to teach without shoes on

Just buy a pair of flat ballet pumps and put those on when teaching

funnyossity · 31/03/2015 10:52

I think its ironic that in order to "power dress" and look "professional" some people end up padding around at work with no shoes on. Confused

I don't really go inn for dress codes at all but I thought wearing shoes was a given!

ElizabethHoover · 31/03/2015 11:00

agree - Nuts

Sadly some of us have to work with people like this.

bakingaddict · 31/03/2015 11:04

So Snowberry you think that teaching barefoot is a more professional look than just wearing a pair of flat ballet style pump. I think you need to readdress your priorities here because if I was a parent of a child at your school I would question whether your thought processes are up to scratch. You may be a damn good teacher and AH but often people make assumptions about someone on a more superficial level

Snowberry86 · 31/03/2015 11:04

No-one has actually given a reason as to why it is "nuts" in their opinion!

How is teaching bare foot unprofessional? How does it affect the quality of my
teaching at all?

Snowberry86 · 31/03/2015 11:06

Baking aedict- I would welcome any parent into my classroom who wanted to check "my thought processes were up to scratch".

They are feet.... Everyone has them!

I could keep ballet pumps under my desk... I have just never bothered. I have never seen any issue what so ever in teaching barefoot until this thread!

Maybe my thought processes aren't up to scratch after all.... I must be a terrible teacher!

bakingaddict · 31/03/2015 11:08

Really Snowberry as an AH you have to ask why teaching bare foot is unprofessional? I am flabbergasted at your naivete

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