I constantly despair about my hair. It is curly, frizzy, thinning at the back, greying at the front, generally uncontrollable. I have a sore itchy scalp, so don't put my hair up so as not to show it, plus I can't get the hang of up dos, no matter how many YouTube vids I watch.
I go once a year for a haircut, ending up with a curly bob that I then don't like and spend a year growing it out, until it gets so messy that the cycle starts again 
As already mentioned I'm no good at hair styling and have aching shoulders, so can't spend hours with a hair dryer. I have straighteners, but dislike how I look with straightened hair.
I've put a photo on my profile. Anyone have similar hair and can suggest a hairstyle?
Short hair doesn't work at all, I hate myself with short hair.
In case you can't view my photo, my face is slightly round (I'm a size 16), medium to dark brown, shoulder length.
I've spent ages on pinterest, I can find styles I like, but they are generally just another curly bob that doesn't look right when cut.
I use sls free shampoo and silicone free conditioner and tend to let my hair dry naturally, then use a hair dryer to get rid of most of the curl and frizz. I like curls, but mine are small and frizzy, not shiny bouncy curls or waves. 
Many many thanks in advance 